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Topic: single parents please!!!
artist4fun Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 1	Fri 12/28/07 03:28 PM
I think you are so right that some people treat there kids better than someone else's and the kids get hurt people like that just don't have a clue

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Fri 12/28/07 03:36 PM
its true.i had to stepsons who were great but the mother was always acting like me in her were in a best mom contest over them.never again.

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Sat 12/29/07 12:57 PM
Single Parent here, it is hard work but we will make it through the craziness that goes on in our lives... oops maybe that is just here at my house... Raising 4 boys ages 14-12-10-10 (yes, twinns)

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sat 12/29/07 01:22 PM
Single Parent here, it is hard work but we will make it through the craziness that goes on in our lives... oops maybe that is just here at my house... Raising 4 boys ages 14-12-10-10 (yes, twinns) i hope your in the beer of the month club lol

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Sun 12/30/07 04:54 PM
Single Parent here, it is hard work but we will make it through the craziness that goes on in our lives... oops maybe that is just here at my house... Raising 4 boys ages 14-12-10-10 (yes, twinns) i hope your in the beer of the month club lol Why you got one handy? Lots of paxil helps.

jdecker Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 11	Thu 01/10/08 04:56 PM
Well i have 2 kids and i love them and will do all that i can for them

bud72 Joined Mon 01/07/08 Posts: 8	Thu 01/10/08 05:25 PM
id rather date a single parent , then u both on same wave length !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ShaninNikole08 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 2	Fri 01/25/08 12:04 PM
Hey single parent here to I have a 16 month old little gurl. I agree on the whole dating other parent thing its too hard with people without kids. they dont understand. you may find one that does but it rare.lol

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Sat 01/26/08 12:33 PM
I dated a man who didn't have kids and OH what a challenge. He was more childish than my 6yr old son. At least with my son when he gets mad he's over it by the next day if not 5 minutes later. This guy stayed mad about spilled water and still ain't over it that I know of. We broke up in July. I'm all for single parents dating single parents. Stick together.

ghostrider63 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 68	Sun 01/27/08 08:43 AM
I loved being a single parent. (two boys, one girl) so I had to go through all of the adolescence on both sides of the spectrum. I would'nt change a thing!

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Fri 09/26/08 08:12 AM
I loved being a single parent. (two boys, one girl) so I had to go through all of the adolescence on both sides of the spectrum. I would'nt change a thing! You go dad. Sounds like you're a good man then because girls aren't easy on single dads to raise alone

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 09/26/08 08:47 AM
im a single father my son lives with me full time and i love it

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Fri 09/26/08 08:52 AM
Cool I have to say kuddos to the dads who do what you're doing. Not many men will raise their kids alone. The ones I personally know can't make it a day without calling "their" moms but at least they're still trying to do it.

Ceazer Joined Sat 09/27/08 Posts: 1	Sat 09/27/08 11:26 PM
I am also a single father with my son full time. The hardest thing I found about trying to date is the women I find don't want to deal with baby mama drama. It drives me nuts! I actual have women give me comments that they would date me if I did not have full custody.. WTF Am I missing the point, I am a great dad and can't wait till I have more rugrats.. Oh well, keep waiting for that special someone right! :)

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Sun 09/28/08 12:19 AM
Well this has always been a factor with single parents.If people would get rid of (mine,yours)&Let it be (ours)That would solve alot. I think (step kids) Is just wrong.Try (kids)After all,Isn't that what they all are?Why do people have to put lables on children? And last but not least.Be willing to give what your asking for!!! Never give up on finding the one for you & your children!They are out there somewhere. I found mine,Kinda scary.Togather we have seven.Two 16yr olds.The rest are from 18 to 26. WooHoo.

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Mon 09/29/08 01:51 PM
I am also a single father with my son full time. The hardest thing I found about trying to date is the women I find don't want to deal with baby mama drama. It drives me nuts! I actual have women give me comments that they would date me if I did not have full custody.. WTF Am I missing the point, I am a great dad and can't wait till I have more rugrats.. Oh well, keep waiting for that special someone right! :) Hold your head up high. Don't let anyone( especially a women) dog you about having full custody of your son/child. Until they know the circumstanse of why you have custody they shouldn't judge. They shouldn't judge anyway but even more so in the case of child custody.

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Mon 09/29/08 02:54 PM
Well this has always been a factor with single parents.If people would get rid of (mine,yours)&Let it be (ours)That would solve alot. I think (step kids) Is just wrong.Try (kids)After all,Isn't that what they all are?Why do people have to put lables on children? And last but not least.Be willing to give what your asking for!!! Never give up on finding the one for you & your children!They are out there somewhere. I found mine,Kinda scary.Togather we have seven.Two 16yr olds.The rest are from 18 to 26. WooHoo. I couldn't agree more. Don't label kids they have to deal with enough. Having a new person in their lives too. I know if it wasn't for my "step" dad raising my sister and I as his own I wouldn't be as close to him as I am. He NEVER said deal with YOUR girls in a way of disclaiming us as his own.

zangel13 Joined Fri 10/03/08 Posts: 1	Sun 10/19/08 03:08 PM
hi i am a single mom oh by the way that is cute baby i have a 9 month old son looking for someone like u it is a tough job raising a baby on ur own but i would not wantv any other way

jrsinglemomof2boys Joined Sat 10/18/08 Posts: 24	Sun 10/19/08 03:16 PM
I have been separated for over a year and a half. Now I have the wonderful, yet tiring job of a single mom. My boys are 4 and 5 and I love them to death. I too found it better to date someone with children. For starters (if they have their own) they know what they are getting into right from the start. The way I see it, love me love my kids.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 10/19/08 03:33 PM
I guess I lucked out because I married a guy who had no kids and he was a great dad. But he didn't try into come in and take over he earned their trust.