Topic: What Now?
OldGekko's photo
Fri 07/03/20 07:09 PM
So I've been married 20 years.
100% faithful and loyal.
Never told her a single lie in that time. I'm a loving, attentive and providing husband. Im a good dad.
I raised 3 fine adults. lol
Wife walked out on us a month ago. And I now face the horrid truth of who she has been for a while.
liar, cheater, addict. for years.
bla bla bla.

I'm Done With Her.
Now it's getting past all of this pain and sadness.
The Question I have is What do I do now?
I don't even know who I am without her. I don't want to be single. lol.


notbeold's photo
Fri 07/03/20 08:11 PM
You are doing it.
Get out there and find something to enjoy and have some fun.
What did you like doing before 20 years ago ?
Start doing new things and see what you like.
Do your kids' friends have nice mothers ?
You might even find a human right here.
Try in the forums to find a kindred soul.

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Fri 07/03/20 08:33 PM
If it was me, I would like to find things to do alone. I would not want to date. What do you like?

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Fri 07/03/20 09:36 PM

If it was me, I would like to find things to do alone. I would not want to date. What do you like?


True dat: give yourself some breathing room, get your head on straight, take some time out for yourself....


feelyoungagain's photo
Sat 08/01/20 12:39 AM

So I've been married 20 years.
100% faithful and loyal.
Never told her a single lie in that time. I'm a loving, attentive and providing husband. Im a good dad.
I raised 3 fine adults. lol
Wife walked out on us a month ago. And I now face the horrid truth of who she has been for a while.
liar, cheater, addict. for years.
bla bla bla.

I'm Done With Her.
Now it's getting past all of this pain and sadness.
The Question I have is What do I do now?
I don't even know who I am without her. I don't want to be single. lol.




I know you didn't want this answer, but it's only been one month! Do you realistically think overcoming something like this will occur in one month?? This is something you'll have to figure out on your own and expect the healing process to last more than one year. You also say LOL about being single. ?? I'm sorry to hear what happened, but.. come on. I think you're expectations are way too high and misguided.