Everyone in your life will hurt you sooner or later. But you will have to decide what is important PAIN or that PERSON?

This would then also apply to you...you caused pain in someone's life...

what did they choose?...

if they did not choose you, the person, what was your reaction?

Is that a question or a statement with an accidental question mark at the end?

Other than that, it depends on the pain.

I mean there's a huge difference between things like:
"My mom has alzheimer's and doesn't know who I am anymore."
and
"my wife just chopped off my penis while I was sleeping and put it in the disposal."
and
"they didn't share their flaming hot cheetos with me."
and
"I was in the car with my best friend when he had a heart attack, the car crashed into a tree, and now both my legs and an arm are broken.


You aren't really differentiating between deliberate or indirect pain.
Intentional or accidental. Or if it's even pain I'm associating with that specific person vs. being in pain and pushing all people away.
Nor what kind of pain (mental, physical, emotional).
Not even short vs. long term.


So...yes? Depending on a lot of factors I will spend an unspecified amount of time deliberating to some unknown degree on whether or not I wish to continue participating in a relationship with one or more people as well as the possibility or not for potential future reconciliation?

Life happens.
Build a bridge, and get over it.

If you deliberately cause pains to me then i have no room for you in my heart.

Words of wisdom. Wish I had known this when I was 25.
Would have improved my behavior as a person.

thank you for sharing your thought about this topic. im just so curious if what would be the others reaction about this one i just saw this topic in a post also