y is it hard to love back some one?
Y is it hard to appreciate one's feelings?

every body has its own opinion abt love

If you do not concern yourself with getting love -but only with giving it to everyone in different ways -you will be much more happy. You will also be more likely to receive love back from everyone in different ways, and to enjoy it when it is given.

If another does not love you in the way you hope -such as romantically -still love them the way you can and move on.

Love isn't something you can give or recieve.
Its a feeling inside you.

You can demonstrate love towards another but they may or may not feel love from it.
Someone can demonstrate their love to you but you may or may not feel love from it.

Since love is a feeling inside, the love you feel is not the same as the love another feels.
You can't cut a piece of your love off you and put it into another.

If someone loves you, you didn't give them that love.
You might have demonstrated your love for them effectively which caused them to feel love toward you but that love they feel is theirs.

Likewise, you might feel love towards someone who does not feel love towards you. No matter how much you love them, you can't make them feel love for you.

If someone feels love for you but you don't feel love for them, no matter how hard they try to make you love them, you won't feel love for them, until you do.

This is because love is purely personal, just like any other feeling or emotional state.

Love and nature.
I love nature

All sorts of reasons.
Could be physiological.
Could me sociological.
Could be emotional.
Could be psychological.
Could be emotional.
Probably is some combination.


They aren't absolute or crystallized.
There are different degrees of feelings, they're associated in all sorts of ways, they're constantly changing, and they directly influence what you're trying to do.

Kinda like asking "Y is it hard to appreciate air," after you've fallen out of an airplane.

No to both questions!

Amazing words... That was was for Tom4Uhere... What you say re love is so true.

Hi im Gavin