Sex is not for fun. It was be done with love and care for your partner.

i have not partner

niki, if it's not fun you're doing it wrong.

Indeed.
Sex should always be mundane and boring.

Isn't sex that new number between five and seven?

Ok...
Is this like a universal law now? Where if anyone has sex just for fun (even with a partner) they're sent to galactic jail or stoned to death or something?

Is this just your personal belief? Why should anyone follow your belief? Or are you just looking for people that agree with you?

What about masturbation? Does that count as self sex and if I do it just for fun I'm going to that galactic jail? Hold on a sec, some men in black are at the door selling pet rocks, brb...

yes

She probably got some of them sex starved 20 something yr olds after her...er.....thang.

Oh hell yea!

No it is something you store potatoes in

A world without enjoying sex is a very sad world indeed even if your only dreaming about it make it fun.

A very popular topic, sex!!

On the hole it can be quite exciting

Sex is the greatest natural pleasure in life but it is more than just sex.. it is nature's default mechanism for pro-creation.. so I think what she is trying to say is sex is something you should do with someone who you really share something special with.. not humping every Jack or Jill anytime you get horny..

Wow. You just hit the motherlode of all controversies when you launched that topic.

There's just about as many opinions on sex as there are people, Nikki. Opinions vary on the subject, and to be perfectly honest, your values influence your opinion.

The tenets of some religions dictate that the purpose of sex is to make babies. If such is your case, then the idea that sex could be pleasurable is secondary to the duties of procreation.

In western cultures, where religion is not the overriding reason for sexual intercourse, sex is more for the sake of pleasure, rather than solely for the purpose of reproduction.

So you see, your personal values play a part in whether you think sex is a means for you and your partner to make each other happy, or to stick to the business of reproduction.

Personally, I prefer to separate the sexual act (ie.: sex) from the act of making love (which makes the sexual act an expression of the love you share with your partner). Sex by itself would be for the sake of pure gratification. Lovemaking would be a communion of two souls becoming one, an expression of love rather than lust...

The important thing is that whether it's sex or making love, it has to be consensual between you and your partner. You have to both agree that it is what you both want.

I know it may sound a bit cheesy, but that's my take for what it's worth.

Sex is for relief for me coz i can't carry load feel dizzy!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>TMI !!!<<<<<<<<<<<<<

i am agree with you

We have diverse views on that subject, but in my perspective, it should be anchored with the so called "love". I don't want to use the word "sex", I prefer to call it making love. It shouldn't just be considered as one-time pleasure or just a worldly pleasure. But nowadays, some people tend to forget the true essence of making love and that's sad. Do it with the person you love and who feels the same way. I have more to say but I will just leave it that way. have a great day, everyone.

P. S it's my first time to participate in this forum thingy my apologies

I try to love the one I am with, the most. Does that count?