Since it seems to be impossible to find a conversation, I guess Ill just post something. I am seperated, waiting on the papers, and it sucks. Every minute is diffrent than what im use to. The person who I thought was my best friend decided I wasnt enough and not what she wanted. It crushes me, but in my situation, I refuse to allow myself to to take all the blame. For me, thats the only way I make it thriugh. Im not a cheater or a lier, and I gave her all I had. The point to this? Dont let anyone lead you away from yourself.

so who r u, and what r u looking for.

Nice rant. I'm sure that will win you a lot of friends.

Divorced & separated, aren't the same thing.
Separated, means that you're still married.

If you're lying to people about your status,
it's no wonder they won't talk to you.

There are three sides to every story.
His side, her side, and the truth.

Does your wife know that you're separated?
Does your wife's divorce attorney know
that you're separated?

A title claiming "Divorced", followed
by your post, admitting to being only
"separated", shows everyone just how
willing you are to deceive.

^^^^^This. Maybe simply come to accept that you didn't make her happy (anymore) and this is a 2-way street.
It also means you weren't all that aware of your relationship (anymore) otherwise you would've noticed. These things do not happen overnight you see.

She is still an iportant part of your life and you still wanna tell people about how she hurt you. Maybe should talk more about You

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