I think we all come from different walks of life... we're all here for a purpose: to interact socially in one way or another. I try not to judge. I try to accept others for who and what they are, but I am human. I think these "general assumptions" based on what the masses do are wrong. Posts about "who's hot and who's not"... I don't take them seriously... beauty- true beauty does radiate from the inside out... that which is surface will eventually wash away to reveal the truth.
Sparta... I've seen your posts, and you're gorgeous... for the person that shines through... and I have not seen your profile... I just have seen your posts in passing.
Caris... I think you need to open your mind just a bit. I've noticed that you see black or white... but there is a gray in between. No one is knocking you... just take a breath... have a drink and a little fun... the best things will fall into place when the time is right...

I also get very tired of arrogance and excessive self pride, so I try to keep those attributes(?) out of my life. However, other ppl are entitled to their own judgements of themselves, and it is not my place to criticize them for their decisions. Particularly, I try never to insult them for what I perceive them to be.

Carislove, I think you have a point. There are a lot of people out there who think they're entitled to whatever they want just because of their looks. But don't go attacking spartis...he was clearly joking..i mean, he doesnt even have a picture up. Even the person who made this thread laughed about it. I understand that you're sensitive about this issue. But I think a lot of jokes are offensive in some way. You made some great points, just calm down.

thanks again singingmeheart.

it doesnt knock me it knocks others
how humans pick on others just for their sake of pride,
how one cries for someone to be with them, but in tha meantime knocks anoter person dowen tellin them they cant have tha same as them
who are we humans to tell others wat we cant do
dat's wat im sick of
and whne said dat comment dat made me wonder wat tha hell he was trying to say, then he says its a joke, but im not even laugin and dont find it humorous cause i take this issue serious

alright Caris you will stick to it, I got it. alright everybody I apologize if i hurt anyone's feeling here.
I just wanted to add some fun, so it is more interesting

well your not a guy!
makes us good guys decent guys feel bad and have shame to know why most guys are ****heads and girls go to them
you dont know how we feel when we guys strive to make you girls happy, yet you go to those jerks giving us a bad name so yes im serious about this and it makes me feel bad
and then each sex even judges by beauty or half of tha time, and other dont, its creepy its confusing and sometimes i dont want to bother and it will never end, dats why sometimes im sick of when girls say its always tha guys fault
blamin us every single time

i dunno now, wat you said and how girls didnt react to it
makes me now wonder dat girls really do like thee bad guys
thes jerks and bastards, not one girls agreed and knew wat i was trying to say in this thread
makes me wonder..wtf..who tha hell is really a girl worth to know

i think im goin to say now ty for showing a example of how guys are at times

you just made me know, not every girl is who they say they are

Sigh....

yea exactly

Just because someone doesn't agree with you doesn't mean they aren't worth knowing. Do you know how many people disagree with me on a daily basis??!?!!! A good debate can be invigorating. Much can be learned.

im not talking about who agreeing or disagreeing

i just now know some girls like those jerks and assholes
and as spartas showed a good example of how a guy can be a jerk

i have lost faith to know, not most girls want those guys

Settle down little man.. before you have an aneurysm!
Your spending so much time and effort making yourself out to be the kind hearted sensitive nice guy... You got yourself believing it. The original poster and his diatribe, sounds much like something you might write... Trying to rationalize social failure.

You wholeheartedly agreed!

Then start indicating he spoke half truths... telling people it ain't right to judge others, while in the same breath, telling us that half the women here are a waste of time...

Maybe you should go have a private moment, figure out which side of the line you want to stand on... come back ~ and stand on it.

The fact is.. just because half the women aren't interested in you Doesn't mean they are prideful.. arrogant or whatever else you might think. It just rubs you wrong because half the woman ~ you feel.. aren't here to find you, or the persona you so desperately try to portray.

I agree with Sparta.. you don't have a sense of humor. Probably because on some level... you know that your act here has more than a few holes in it.

Spartas is not a jerk... he's just not afraid to show his personality- regardless of how others perceive him.... some girls like it spicy... some are more reserved. Don't lose faith. Obviously the girls going after the "bad boys" are probably NOT the type you are looking for. The "jerks" are probably weeding out the girls not suitable for you. Besides, it's a big world... plenty of fish in the sea....

A jerk isn't someone who makes a relatively harmless joke. I'm sure you have made jokes and/or comments that have offended somebody. It doesnt make you a jerk.

To turn the tables on you, just as there are girls who go for jerks, there are many guys who there who will choose the evil and/or very promiscuous girl over the nice girl who actually has morals and values.

I'm not bitter because I know there are good people, bad people, and people who just make mistakes and are misled. Sometimes going for the wrong person can lead you in the right direction.

If you're a good, decent guy like you say you are, you should be confident that there is someone out there for you and all those other girls who went for the jerks didnt work out for a reason. In the meantime, respect everyone, their choices, and their views.

its not about who doesnt like me or who does like me
its about knowign tha truth
and sparta just showed me example and good lesson to know
not all females are who they seem to be
so i have lost some faith now
dat's all


i will still have faitth in tha girls who dont ask for much and actually want a decent man
but to tha rest of those females , i will ignore

why would you care to tell me not to lose faith?
you dont even know how i feel
and much as you goin to show sympathy, i dont need it from you
im fine

i can jerk too if i want
maybe i will

Ok... now I'm lost....
can someone translate for me?
did someone put up a false front here?
I think I'm going blonde... Hair dye quick!!!!

Pity seekers do NOT get sympathy from me... loved ones of the deceased get sympathy from me...

translation is

LOST FAITH