Topic: Online dating sites and women
singingmyheartout's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:42 PM
He's not poor... he's narrow minded. People who think outside the box generally have an easier time of things... because they aren't following one label or path...

polypeasant's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:43 PM
REMEMBER FREE...jsh offers a nice well rounded site. Wait until you go to the pay sites...meet no one and the audit debits keep coming out of your bank account. The paid sites put so much pressure on you even if you do quit. They'll beg for you to come back with incentives....oh someone looked you up and wants to meet you...
yeah and pass the turnips that fell off the truck...

Think positive. Even if you meet one good person, that is likely to lead to another and another...
PLAY IT FORWARD!:angry: grumble
aaaahhhhhhhhhhbetter now thanksbigsmile

RealtyLady's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:43 PM
Well said, Polyflowerforyou

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Thu 12/20/07 05:45 PM


You just have to wade through until you find what you are seeking.

I don't think there can be a web site that is free and strickly for dating purposes only. Maybe the pay sites would be better for you.


Pay sites are really no different than free sites.
JSH has the best forum out of all the sites!
Lotsa great people on hereflowerforyou


I agree with you... when it is said that u get what u pay for... the exception is here on the dating site... it is what it is free or not.. the same

no photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:46 PM
Poly said it right, people don't change its paid site or free site, if they don't like then they don't, stop ****ing and move on.

Reenie's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:53 PM
People are on here for different reasons and I think everyone should respect that. Just because someone isn't looking for a relationship, doesn't mean they're on some ego trip. Personally, I think the forums are the best part of this site because I get to hear different people's insight and I do learn a lot. I'm not looking to date anyone from here, but if it happens, it happens.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:53 PM

u guys r ugly and thats why u r saying all this, look at me all girls are crazy for me and they all wan me:wink:


and this is why some guys get a bad rep
basing it on beauty an pride


go back to pimpin fool

adj4u's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:54 PM
well i look at any site with a community atmosphere as just that

there are many different types of people in the community

some you will like some you will tolerate some you may like a lot

some you wish they would move to another community

but all in all everyone is here in the community because

we like it here and we think it is a good community

we get along with the neighbors (usually) but hey

there are hassle and biggering in every community at times

with the cost of going out somewhere

this is an inexpensive way to have a block party

and if ya get lucky enough to meet that special someone

that makes it an even better community

just a thought

but hey what do i know


no photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:54 PM
wow man people don't have sense of humor ..

RealtyLady's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:55 PM

wow man people don't have sense of humor ..


Correction: SOME ppl dont have a sense of humor....
Unlike us!!!

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Thu 12/20/07 05:57 PM
i am sorry, correction : Carislove dont have a sense of humor...

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:58 PM
some disagree
but tha others agree
and i totally agree wat he said
cause there are some girls and guys who waste each other's time
but dat's why we move on
other than dat, im sick of humans on here always basing it on beauty and appearance, yet some of you people pretend its more than just looks lol just to sound likeyou worth to know, WELL NOT EVERYONE IS GOIN TO BE FOOLED BY YOU LOL
but looks is for sex and eye candy only, to be in love and enjoy a person more and get to know more of their world
takes mind and personality..AND ALOT OF RESPECT

and you can take dat to bank!

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:00 PM
Edited by CaRisLOVE on Thu 12/20/07 06:02 PM

i am sorry, correction : Carislove dont have a sense of humor...


nice try but its not a joke
this is a serious topic
either say your dues or dont say anything at all
who tha hell are you to tell someone their ugly?
take your pride elsewhere cause tha world doesnt just revolve arround you
i dont know you so i aint even gonna judge you
so dont judge others

if your on this site to get a quick ****

just admit it other than dat
stop giving us good guys
us good men
us good decent loving men who actually know how to be there for a woman
a bad name

admit your a jerk or admit your just full of pride
but i hope karma comes back to you punk
when a woman turns you down even for your looks or your sad personality!



singingmyheartout's photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:01 PM
I believe this topic sorta judged women.

"Like girls looking for men for friendship are really just wanting to be friends".... is that not judgmental?

Don't be a hypocrite!

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:05 PM
why would this topic be humourous??
i swear half of you people,, NO NOTHING bout wat love is and wat respect is
no wonder you on this site

who tha hell are you people to tell others who they want?
dont you ever wonder this?


im doen i said my dues on this
threadmaker said a half truth on here to others you can get mad and disagree
but to judge others pr have pride for yourself
is a long way for even knoweing how to love and be there for someone
im not even fooled how half of tha women on here are just for teases or eyes candy while tha rest are serius and actually arent greedy

no photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:05 PM
thank you Singingmyheart
he still didn't get the humor, what part of my pic looks hot to him , i was joking the pic i put here so that no one can judge me and talk to me for who i am not for how i look. another i don't judge anybody, no one is ugly , ask their parents. Hope i clear my self

willy_cents's photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:08 PM
Come on ppl...be civil and discuss the topic without insulting each other...show a little self control.

I agree with th op, but I apply it equally to both sexes. JSH or any other site mirrors the general physical community. There are egotists and whiners everywhere...lol. Perhaps the thing many do not understand is that the "lets just be friends" is generally the kiss of death to a relationship, particularly to men. Myself, I am and will be friends to anyone, took a lot of living and busted relationships to get to that point.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:09 PM
i am civil
just sick of how some humans are still arogant and think too much with their own sad pride,

pashen37's photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:11 PM

Come on ppl...be civil and discuss the topic without insulting each other...show a little self control.

I agree with th op, but I apply it equally to both sexes. JSH or any other site mirrors the general physical community. There are egotists and whiners everywhere...lol. Perhaps the thing many do not understand is that the "lets just be friends" is generally the kiss of death to a relationship, particularly to men. Myself, I am and will be friends to anyone, took a lot of living and busted relationships to get to that point.
its the same for woman i think..we just deal with it in a different way.."lets just be friends" kiss of death to a relationship...but i agree lets be civil about itflowerforyou

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:12 PM

thank you Singingmyheart
he still didn't get the humor, what part of my pic looks hot to him , i was joking the pic i put here so that no one can judge me and talk to me for who i am not for how i look. another i don't judge anybody, no one is ugly , ask their parents. Hope i clear my self


well it still isnt funny
im sick of how people do this

cause if this was funny
then we wouldnt have people come on here everydaya n cry their hearts out bein used when they wanted dat person to have same love as them