I consider myself to be very simple. I believe that women needs to be treated with respect and as a equal partner in a relationship, but all I seem to find is the ones that does not know how to respond to that or is entrusting to it.

Perhaps this will help...

Choose Wisely

ur rite but women are lovely and men are not how can that be.treated to make men lovley

Hi

Respect is something earned by how you treat others and your behaviors. As for being treated equal, that would assume both are equal. Generally people have some very strong areas and some weak areas. In an ideal relationship these characteristics would complement each other and the sum would far exceed the strength of either. In this case, both are equal. When one is much more capable than the other, the possibility of treating each other as equals is compromised. It is best to know your own capabilities and decide when your partner should be the leader and you be the follower. Often times that will vary depending on what the situation is. We all need to be willing to take that subservient role at times to get the best results of the partnership.

Yes You are right

Please dont classify all men the same,I have been divorced twice, the first wife cheated on me for over 20 years but I never raised my voice or hand to her. I waited for our 25th wedding anniversary I put the divorce papers inside the card lol

Then watch them first. Don't get into a relationship until you know their views on equality. Respect is earned by respecting a respectful man.

Mee too same feeling

I think this KIND of problem, may be a direct result or symptom of something that it took me a VERY long time to recognize, despite numerous "hints."

That is, that many very desirable traits and characteristics we each want, are inherently tied to some much less desirable, even seriously unpleasant things we don't want.

In the area of respecting others, just for example, lots of people want a mate who is decisive, and knows what they want in life, both so that they can make reasonable plans for the future, and because when someone like that does desire to be with you, its very exciting and comforting.

But all too often, "decisive and knows what they want" comes with a strong component of "self-centered and uncaring of others problems." Sometimes even to the point of that person being all too ready to set their official mate aside for a new whim.

At the other end, finding someone sensitive and caring, can be linked to tendency to wait interminably, or being easily distracted by others, or even an inability to really dedicate themselves to one person.

You have tremendous power. Men with horrible egos know this, and unfortunately, they happened to be in the world's highest offices...

To give you an Idea how much power you have, in the Ojibwe Lodges, when a woman is on her moon, she is not allowed into the council circle until her moon is finished. Her aura medicine is considered too strong and distracting. It intimidates the men at times... It's a shame, as the women of the high council often have the best ideas or solutions, often in detailed stages (they have a lot to do!)... I can't say if that applies to other tribal lodges or not.

You have the same strength of power as men, but differently. one has to think altogether differently to come up with plans and solutions, but once you have your format, you will be unstoppable if you keep morphing it, because it's unique enough to cut through all the "landscaping" of others. step back... and at all angles....Think smart, not hard.

!00% Igor That's exactly how it is..

Male or female. we both fall for it.. Take plenty of time, don't blindly trust chemistry. ( although the experiments are fun :-)

Make us wait Paulima M

yes dear you are right

Ladies are always welcome to offer me drinks, and restaurant meals, and entertainment, and proposition me for sex. Any time !

Men and women live in a different world and speak different languages (figuratively)

Hi

You right about that

i can see where you are going with this, i must say that is a broad way of thinking, how can we reach an impasse?

This is what i always look for in a partner, mutual respect which leads to friendship, it results to a healthy relationship