Topic: <--- Mingle noob. Am i doing it all wrong?
Stevie C. Mebbie's photo
Tue 02/11/20 06:23 PM
Please help me

Poetrywriter's photo
Tue 02/11/20 06:36 PM
Ditch the main profile photo. Ladies want to see your eyes not shades. No interests listed. No write up to speak of. And then of course these - (Looking for dating, activity partner, friendship, relationship, intimate encounter). Pick one and stick with it. Saying them all is not a good idea.

Bastet127's photo
Tue 02/11/20 06:44 PM
I’ve tallied the votes, the answer is yes.

Stevie C. Mebbie's photo
Tue 02/11/20 10:14 PM
Thank you sir. This is all new to me.

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Tue 02/11/20 10:56 PM

I’ve tallied the votes, the answer is yes.

Same as

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 02/12/20 02:11 AM
Seems fine to me...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 02/12/20 04:36 AM
Different profile photo is needed, without glasses and just smiling.
The silly photos aren't really what you'd use to attract a woman but more suited for a 'boys with toys' forum.
The text is all over the place, superficial too. So you're a nerd. Do you have 'normal' and quiet moments too? Or is everything always bouncing off the ceiling?
I don't mean that in a nasty way, but that's what it feels like.

What are you looking for? What kind of woman?
You don't have to be all serious and stuff if you're not like that, but this is simply a bad profile.
Spend some epic time Googling how to make a good profile that reflects who you are but is till appealing. A few hours will get you quite far.

SpaceCodet's photo
Wed 02/12/20 01:28 PM
You need to sell yourself, is true. In this situation it's not getting a random job. It's a sasific one. In that sense you need to figure out what you're looking for. Reality is that not anyone will do for you or whomever you meet.

Photos:
You need a clear picture of your face without sunglasses, hats or any other thing that covers your face. You also need a clear shot of your body so people can see what you look like over all. Then additional photos should let people know something of your personality. If you're a biker then have a picture of you on your bike, if you're into fishing have one of you doing that, art you have hanging on your wall or whatever that give that person a decent idea of who you are.

Stats:
It's always good to make sure you have your stats filled out. Honesty is always the best policy. Interests are apart of that. Most people have a wide range of skills and interests. It's best to pick a handful that you enjoy doing more then others. This also allows someone to get a better understanding of what kind of person you are.

About me/ What I'm looking for
This is as important to people who are serious as the rest. It gives a chance for you to let someone know your sense of humor and a bit more of your personality type. It also allows someone to know the range of personality type along with attractiveness level you are looking for. Just like you don't want to be someone's settling for less, they don't want that from you either.

Settings/Help
You should adjust your settings for age rang and such. You should read the help suggestions for messaging people and forms. Does and don'ts will help if you're not sabby with the net.