i just want to do it wih the women i marry, anw you may think i am lying but its okay i know myself.

Good for you!!!

thx

it doesn't mean anything because you're an adult.
You know what's going on, what things do, how to prevent pregnancy and STD's, have access to porn, and most likely masturbate or have done so at some point.

IMO with the knowledge of sex available today, saying you're a virgin, or people that espouse virginity as being virtuous, is tantamount to saying, at best, "I've always kept up walls with people and made sure others conformed to my boundaries and beliefs," and at worst saying "I've never really tried having an adult relationship," or, "I might be hiding something from myself like asexuality or schizoid/autistic scale mental/emotional problems."


Great.
You get married, you have sex, now you are no longer a virgin.
What then?
What meaning did it have? Is it something that helps establish and/or strengthen the bond/relationship? What about all past relationships you've had?
Could that have changed things? Isn't it possible that having sex with them as part of the relationship could have the same effect?

IMO there is a huge "danger" here in "waiting for marriage."

Once you realize it was an arbitrary decision that doesn't grant anything whatsoever to anything and the only value it has is in your own head which you ultimately have to force on others to agree with you, how are you going to react?

IMO it's like saying "I'm a teetotaler. I am going to wait until I commit to a single brand/type of whiskey before having a drink."

My curiosity is more of why you value or continue to choose this belief has value, what you hope to get out of it, what you think it will actually contribute to your relationship/marriage.

The term "virgin", most commonly was a reference for a females physical state. Not so much a males. Although both have "wet dreams", it's more common for a male to spill out during the night. And because when males ejaculate it's more visible and messy. Often times if the male is younger, he may try to make sense out of what had happened and why it happened. And, often enough he may look forward to it happening again, and soon. So it's not saying that males can't be virgins, meaning that they haven't had vaginal intercourse, and in many cases or oral. But the proper term is being chaste. That term implies a sincere effort to avoid any and all sexual contact, even with ones' hands or objects.

Good for you -and others!
Actually -marrying as virgins makes a huge positive difference in many ways -all else being as it should.
It also has many positive effects -and avoids many negative effects -for human society as a whole -(too many to go into here, actually -but anyone can do the research.

It hasn't always been my policy, unfortunately -but it is now -after realizing how damaging it is. Can't even consider a relationship right now, anyway -maybe someday.

My only advice would be to be proactive in finding a like-minded wife if you are eager (but have good fun -don't pressure someone about marriage -just let it happen if it will -while still increasing your chances by meeting more women) -because waiting for it to happen will make it much less likely these days.
Many people just don't get it.
Meanwhile, do as much research on how to have a healthy relationship. Many people think it is natural. It is not -the feelings may be natural, but the skills should be learned.

I didn't get started till 27 either, don't worry about it you ain't missing all that much.

for me sex after marriage is with alot of consideration.for example if it happens that I get married to a virgin woman I will be happy knowing that I'm the only one who is had and who is still penetrating her . this pleasure or Joy is vice versa.

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I committed an error up so I had corrected it down. now tell me what is funny there????️️️️️️️️️