I feel more comfortable with random chit chat cuz im bad at expressing my thoughts and feelings.

I enjoy talking to people BUT.....there's a reason that we have two ears and one mouth.....

All you have to do is say it, it is the ones your talking to that have the choice to take it onboard or flush it.

LOL,
To think about it, I'm gunna go with both +1.

People who know me best understand I read inter-personal situations fairly well. I inject off-the-wall remarks to break the tension or revive stale conversation.

I have an expressive personality.

I can have a serious conversation if the situation warrants.
I can enjoy mindless banter if the mood is right.
I also have the capacity to verbally engage others with my imagination.

I have the ability to switch it up as I read others.

Not only do I know how to keep the center of attention I have learned to pass the focus to others. People tend to like being around me because I can hold their attention but make them important too.

Its just as important to 'listen' as it is to talk.
Thing is, once the important stuff is said, there's still plenty to talk about.
Sometimes the banter and nonsense reveals more about a personality than serious conversation can. If yer paying attention.

My GF and I talk all weekend, often about nothing important.
We enjoy each other's interaction. We can talk for hours together and say nothing significant yet feel closer to one another.

The person saying only significant, serious stuff all the time makes me feel like I am attending a lecture.

Life is serious stuff when its serious stuff, the rest is meant to be enjoyable.
Try to enjoy yourselves.

Thoughts