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| Topic: Monogamy Vs. Polygamy | |
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and sexual boredom are reasons I am in opposition to monogamy. That explains this topic. 
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Edited by
Duttoneer
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Wed 12/18/19 02:28 AM
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Different partnerships work well for different people. Not everyone is built for monogamous relationships. High divorce rates, reports of infidelity, and sexual boredom are reasons I am in opposition to monogamy. Monogamy seems to be outdated, unnatural, and restrictive. People share more companionship,and ongoing sexual variety which are upsides of polygamous relationships. Lying, deceit, and sneaking around which occurs with unfaithful individuals is wholly different from a consensual partnership with more than two individuals and may even relieve stress. I would think most people could be happier if we stopped trying to make one person our everything and learned that our own self worth is more than enough! Most societies promote marriage as a monogamous relationship, and marriage provides some legal protections, if one partner decides to be unfaithful then the other partner can obtain a divorce ending the marriage. If your interests are in polygamy, probably better not to enter in to a monogamous marriage, or to extricate yourself from marriage first, because in my opinion most people prefer a monogamous relationship and are happy to make their marriage commitment. There are some exceptions, polygamous marriages, but I suspect even then you would be restricted to relationships confined to your wives only, or possibly adding another wife. |
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Having a point of view is "absurd" My friend that's AMERICAN! I'm not trying to make anyone do something that they don't want to do. But I don't want anyone feeling bad that they don't feel like you do. As a CHRISTIAN you job is to spread the word not enforce it. FREE WILL that's what God gave to each of us and that person alone will answer to God at that final judgement day. Trying to live a life where we Love each other and not hurt one another should be a goal for everyone.
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Edited by
Let'sDoThis
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Wed 12/18/19 08:58 AM
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A true polygamist would have to be monogamous × however many wives he had. Ergo, funny word,if he doesn't stray, he's faithful to all his women. Either you are in polygamy or you are not. There is no both ways or middle ground There are no absolutes. A man having multiple wives and sexing only them is still monogamous to each wife. Abstract thought. |
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A true polygamist would have to be monogamous × however many wives he had. Ergo, funny word,if he doesn't stray, he's faithful to all his women. Either you are in polygamy or you are not. There is no both ways or middle ground I believe you misunderstood him. What he was saying is that in most polygamy families, the person with more than one spouse is required to be faithful to them, and not become involved with someone outside the family. In other words, a person with two spouses, can spend time with either or both, but may not chase a third. It's got nothing to do with "middle ground." |
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When I was younger I had many simultaneous affairs the physical side was great ,but soon the mental side became too much ,I could no longer take half a dozen disagreements and arguments with girls at the same time ,I slowed down and settled with just one for 40 + years , I then found I could not even take the disagreements with one,we split and now I am here looking for a lady who is incapable of arguments
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When I was younger I had many simultaneous affairs the physical side was great ,but soon the mental side became too much ,I could no longer take half a dozen disagreements and arguments with girls at the same time ,I slowed down and settled with just one for 40 + years , I then found I could not even take the disagreements with one,we split and now I am here looking for a lady who is incapable of arguments
Too bad you live across the big pond, I avoid arguments like the plague! I've gotten better with not breaking out in tears at the first sign of discord, but I still go to my designated corner until things calm down and it can be talked about without raising voices, haha. |
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I think, bamboo makes much better patio
furniture, than mahogany. |
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