Okay tell me why is it that when your talking to someone in private they
seem to always bring up other relantionships or even other dating sites
and who they have contacted or contacted them in the converstation what
is the deal with that be it Male or Female for I know at times both do
this. Does it mean they realy don't want things to go any farther with
you? Are they just fishing for things to say? Or what?

Just something off the top of my head and just curious about it.
Myself I don't for it would make the other person uncofortable.

Enlighten me please lol

sweet talker or street walker. sorry couldent resist that one.
i HAVE FOUND THAT MOST OF THE WOMEN I HAVE CHATTED WITH, WHEN YOU
REALLY PIN THEM DOWN, ARE ALREADY INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE. Mabe thier
looking to trade up, mabe thier just curious, dont know. I have met two
real sweeties that I HAVE CHATTED WITH quite A LOT, TALKED WITH ON THE
PHONE SOME and hope to meet soon. one is here in Mich and another is in
ILLIONOIS.

I dunno Gurly...I've not experienced this..and I don't think I do i
unless asked about i or trying to relate to someone else about their
experience..man I am freakin niave lol

good eve gal...ok i have to admit that i sometimes do that but that's
when i'm finding myself running out things to talk about, but i bring it
up by asking if they are having any luck with the site

Ok here it is. First of all your chatting with some on the computer.
Second most people feel like they can prove something by doing so. And
third most people need a sounding board someone they can talk to and get
feed back without being judged. They feel since you dont know them and
well they dont know you that they wont be judged for their opinion or
insite into certain matters in life. And well since we are nothing but
human we judge. You wanted to know so I told you.

I mean after all, we probably met though that very site that we might be
talking about

Well now if your talking and asking about there past is one thing. But
if they act like they want to meet you and still bring these things up
what is that suppose to mean? LMAO


Maybe I do need a drink after all.

This is even a little deep for me!!

I think it means they aren't really looking or really interested..but
remember I am a ditz(thick in the head) so I could just be blowing
smoke lol

i don't ask about the pass...less i know the happyer i'll be.

the pass can come later, i'm not one to pry unless they bring it up
first.

what's up chubbs

not much poison just hangin out working on some writing

cool, not for nothing and i do throw myself into this category but the
question is....are we dateless this saterday night....?

yep...dateless all the tim..males in my area are married, attached or
gay..or just no the type I would date..thats why I am here lol

I am........... Im not afaid to admit to it. Then again I hate the clubs
here so.............

Your no ditz girl just real!

Poison neither do I, but why bring up all this if you act like your
interested in them.

Would that not be a big turn off?

If nothing but friends then talk about anything and everything but there
has to be a turning point on what is brought up in a conversation if
things seems to be going to a different level with two people am I not
correct in this or just ole school in my thinking when it comes to that?

Or could it mean they are interested in you but its to impress?

It could be to impress....but at the same time like you said earlier
they run out of things to say.

I think they're just trying to impress you and fishing for
things to say.

bleh why can't people just be real..that kinda stuff don't impress me
and I don't think it impresses anyone bleh bleh bleh

Think about it they may hit a button and all of a sudden a new
conversation starts.

could be a number of things.