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Topic: love or sex - part 2
Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14463	Sat 05/09/20 07:50 AM
love

Nancy Joined Fri 03/06/20 Posts: 113	Sat 05/09/20 08:14 AM
One has nothing to do with the other. You can have sex with out love and love without sex. Sex is a biological function, a hormonal need and can be nothing more than that. Love, in my opinion, is also biological, and can be strengthened through sex, but can also be strengthened through a myriad of other things. Often, we confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation never lasts. Infatuation is fleeting, but through closeness, which can include sex, it can grow into love. SunnyMike, I like you more and more every time I see your posts. You "get it". Alas, two separate continents. Oh well. Dating or relationship does not have to be about love, or sex. Consenting adults can make it about whatever they agree on. If their goals don't align, that's a recipe for disappointment.

Remy Joined Sat 05/09/20 Posts: 1	Sat 05/09/20 07:09 PM
Love first then sex

Paul Joined Sun 05/10/20 Posts: 1	Sun 05/10/20 12:27 AM
hello chlo

Needforspeed Joined Mon 08/26/19 Posts: 1	Mon 05/11/20 09:18 AM
Both. Sex is better if you love your partner.

arya Joined Tue 05/12/20 Posts: 1	Tue 05/12/20 10:29 AM
hi

Sarathlal Joined Tue 05/12/20 Posts: 1	Tue 05/12/20 02:12 PM
hi i interest with u

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Tue 05/12/20 02:37 PM
One has nothing to do with the other. You can have sex with out love and love without sex. Sex is a biological function, a hormonal need and can be nothing more than that. Love, in my opinion, is also biological, and can be strengthened through sex, but can also be strengthened through a myriad of other things. Often, we confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation never lasts. Infatuation is fleeting, but through closeness, which can include sex, it can grow into love. SunnyMike, I like you more and more every time I see your posts. You "get it". Alas, two separate continents. Oh well. Dating or relationship does not have to be about love, or sex. Consenting adults can make it about whatever they agree on. If their goals don't align, that's a recipe for disappointment. SunnyMike;I totally agree with you, it's the old "being in love with being in love" trap that many fall into and yes it can grow into love but in my experience it's very rare and truly time consuming. At my age 63 1/2 btw I feel like do it now and if not when? Another Mike

ann Joined Tue 05/12/20 Posts: 1	Tue 05/12/20 10:31 PM
Both

SunnyMike Joined Thu 04/16/20 Posts: 700	Tue 05/12/20 10:43 PM
One has nothing to do with the other. You can have sex with out love and love without sex. Sex is a biological function, a hormonal need and can be nothing more than that. Love, in my opinion, is also biological, and can be strengthened through sex, but can also be strengthened through a myriad of other things. Often, we confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation never lasts. Infatuation is fleeting, but through closeness, which can include sex, it can grow into love. SunnyMike, I like you more and more every time I see your posts. You "get it". Alas, two separate continents. Oh well. Dating or relationship does not have to be about love, or sex. Consenting adults can make it about whatever they agree on. If their goals don't align, that's a recipe for disappointment. SunnyMike;I totally agree with you, it's the old "being in love with being in love" trap that many fall into and yes it can grow into love but in my experience it's very rare and truly time consuming. At my age 63 1/2 btw I feel like do it now and if not when? Another Mike Mike, I love how you add the 1/2 - shows you're still a kid at heart.

Susha Joined Tue 05/12/20 Posts: 2	Wed 05/13/20 04:12 AM
for men its good sex automatically love ... for women real love then sex ......so it can never match

optimisthero Joined Wed 01/08/20 Posts: 8	Thu 05/14/20 07:51 AM
both come in harmony

jayjay Joined Tue 05/12/20 Posts: 1	Thu 05/14/20 11:19 AM
Love with sex

Robhug Joined Fri 05/15/20 Posts: 2	Fri 05/15/20 08:06 AM
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kamrul Joined Tue 05/12/20 Posts: 2	Fri 05/15/20 08:41 AM
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zafran Joined Wed 05/13/20 Posts: 1	Fri 05/15/20 08:59 AM
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sanjay27890 Joined Sun 10/06/19 Posts: 2	Fri 05/15/20 08:23 PM
love and sex both are an important key for a successful relationship they both should go parallel like the railway tracks

Vikrant Jaiswal Joined Fri 05/15/20 Posts: 1	Fri 05/15/20 08:31 PM
Yes

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Fri 05/15/20 08:41 PM
One has nothing to do with the other. You can have sex with out love and love without sex. Sex is a biological function, a hormonal need and can be nothing more than that. Love, in my opinion, is also biological, and can be strengthened through sex, but can also be strengthened through a myriad of other things. Often, we confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation never lasts. Infatuation is fleeting, but through closeness, which can include sex, it can grow into love. SunnyMike, I like you more and more every time I see your posts. You "get it". Alas, two separate continents. Oh well. Dating or relationship does not have to be about love, or sex. Consenting adults can make it about whatever they agree on. If their goals don't align, that's a recipe for disappointment. You caught me! Gotta make it last as long as possible. My problem is if I'd known I was gonna live this long I'd have taken a lot better care of myself! Believe me I've lived it all. SunnyMike;I totally agree with you, it's the old "being in love with being in love" trap that many fall into and yes it can grow into love but in my experience it's very rare and truly time consuming. At my age 63 1/2 btw I feel like do it now and if not when? Another Mike Mike, I love how you add the 1/2 - shows you're still a kid at heart.

jewelrana786 Joined Sat 11/01/14 Posts: 3	Fri 05/15/20 09:09 PM
good morning my dear friend how are you