I have a firm sense of my sexual orientation, preferred sexual activities and comfort level. I like sex that is romantic, adventurous and fun, but for me sex is not a casual event.
Sex has great importance in my relationship but it is reserved for someone I love. Some may think my sexual preferences are conservative, but I am no prude. I'm confident in my own sexual ability and open to try various activities. In fact, I like to experiment actively. I'm not sexually selfish – I like to focus on pleasing her and submitting to her desires. I'm looking for someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love and who appreciates being the center of attention in the bedroom.
My profile "about Me section.

At 58 years, I still possess a sexual attraction to women in my age range.
My question, no wait, my understanding is that most of us "over 50s" group still want sex in their lives.

Granted, my question is slanted to after a relationship has been established but I feel as tho a lot of The 50+ people dismiss someone that is sexually open.

I mean, at my age, sex is no longer a taboo subject but many treat it as such.
The fact that a guy might be open talking about their sexual needs is shunned.

Granted, there is a need for tact but in honest discussion, once sex is mentioned in any way, we get immediate dismissal.
Once age (and nature) make reproduction obsolete, why is sex for pleasure suddenly off the table?

Granted, a 'first date' that focuses on sex might not be a good relationship starter but we should all be adult enough to be able to talk about our sexual needs without feeling like we are promoting it.

Is sex over 50, still tabboo or is it part of the experience of life?

Ok. I had someone to read this 4 me cause my reading not 2 good. My point is that as we grow older sex is not as important as other things. Companionship, communication and just affection can be just as good. Some women, not all have health problems by the time we reach 50 that sex is more than enjoyable its either painful or uncomfortable. Or were just plain tired. I know for myself i cant do marathon sex like when i was younger. Lol. Loving someone is unconditional and takes in consideration of there mates needs than there own. Sex has become overated nowadays that its more of a social game than really having feelings and love 4 another. This is my opinions.

Hi Tom ,
I really liked everything you had to say about sex. Since you brought it up, I looked at your profile. It was long lol, but it gave a clear description about your thoughts on it, as well as love and relationships.

I do see the responses that you are referring to, while speaking about sex. Frankly, sometimes, with some of the things that are said, can you blame them? :-)

I understand what you are saying. I am 53 and sex is an enjoyable and also a bonding experience for me, when I am in a relationship.

I also understand what Sheri wrote.
I have experienced some lessening of desire, as my body changes.

Great sex is still possible though. You just have to make some adaptations from what you used to.

You brought up an excellent subject, in a very dignified way.
Thank you.

I'm totally shocked with you tom
You should know better at your age


When we were young the thought of our parents having sex, or shall we say making love, sounds better, was sickening, they were probably only in their 30s to. As we age we know different. nothing wrong with it at all!

I try to keep it under fifty when having sex in a car.

Well ladies I am game. I seek a woman to get together with, have fun.