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| Topic: Can you love your partner more than yourself | |
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I few people saying... It only works if it's both ways. That is CONDITIONAL love. What if they -or you- have a really bad hairday, get ill for a longer period of time, or depressed, and cannot give the other all that love because they have to focus on their own well-being. Do you then get miserable, angry, bitter etc. as you're not getting love anymore? What if you split up. Then your source of love and happiness is gone... Maybe that's why so many people get in trouble after a breakup. It's vitally important to FIRST fill yourself with love of Self. And when you got enough so it begins to spill over then you got something to give, without depleting yourself. Then you can also hold your love for another stable without it being conditional. Well. Some people who 'love themselves ' can be arrogant and think they are above others. Regarding a bad hair day well love should be through good and bad. If you split up then eventually that love should fade or it will put your life in limbo stopping you from finding love with someone else  Arrogance is not self-love, it is more a lack of it and compensating for that. Some with self-love feels wonderful and loving, lovable. In a way they have become love. Arrogance has no place in there. |
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Well, I like myself
I tend to stay away from ppl who overly love themselves, the selfish side always seems to creep in eventually. I really like people who LOVE people. |
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I few people saying... It only works if it's both ways. That is CONDITIONAL love. What if they -or you- have a really bad hairday, get ill for a longer period of time, or depressed, and cannot give the other all that love because they have to focus on their own well-being. Do you then get miserable, angry, bitter etc. as you're not getting love anymore? What if you split up. Then your source of love and happiness is gone... Maybe that's why so many people get in trouble after a breakup. It's vitally important to FIRST fill yourself with love of Self. And when you got enough so it begins to spill over then you got something to give, without depleting yourself. Then you can also hold your love for another stable without it being conditional. Well. Some people who 'love themselves ' can be arrogant and think they are above others. Regarding a bad hair day well love should be through good and bad. If you split up then eventually that love should fade or it will put your life in limbo stopping you from finding love with someone else Arrogance is not self-love, it is more a lack of it and compensating for that. Some with self-love feels wonderful and loving, lovable. In a way they have become love. Arrogance has no place in there. Sorry it was meant to be  and not I disagree. arrogant people who love themselves. Example, a guy or woman that is just rude and ignores you because they think they are better than you. |
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