Although it could be considered courageous that you put that photo up, there's also such a thing as good taste and the right place and the right time for such things.
Mingle is not the place to post that kind of photo. If you'd do it on any other site that's catering for cross dressers and whatnot, entirely different.
If one was into BDSM it also wouldn't be particularly tasteful to post pictures of that here.
That doesn't mean you are ashamed of what you do or want, it's a matter of having sense of knowing what fits where, and what not.
I take it you like to shock people, maybe a bit of an exhibitionist. Not that uncommon, but again this is not the right place. Go to Fetlife or something.
On here you can tell about your fetish, but I'd leave the photo out.

I'm sure you're very confused.
And I'm not small minded son; I built a very successful company, ran it and traveled the world for 30 years. I retired at 60 here in the middle of Nebraska because my 14 y/o daughter and only child is here.
I'd bet your gay and may not know it yourself. I'm not, not even a little.
My best advise to you is get in touch with your real self, don't invite comments you can't handle and (as has been said) pick a more correct site for your fetish desires.

This can’t be an ‘or’ question if looking for woman.

I don't really care, that you're a transvestite
with a point to prove.

The forum heading is 'Rate My Profile'.

Two photos is a start, you could add more.
Your interest section is filled out.
The "about me" section is filled out.

There's room for improvement.
But, you're off to an okay start.