While I appreciate and understand everyone's feelings on all the
childish and immature "shit-stiring" going on, I'd like to add
something.

Remember bullies in elementary school? Kids that push other kids
around, call names, play keep-away with...all in a desperate attempt to
get a reaction- and some attention.

The entire motivation for any kind of antagonistic behavior is the
reaction to it. A childhood bully that calls names is only fueled when
you say, "Stop it!" However, if you ignore the bully and don't give
them the satisfaction of a reaction...generally they stop- or, at least,
move on to someone else.

And I know that this is easier said than done...I've been dealing with a
similar situation for the last couple of weeks. Of all places, I've got
this bullshit happening at work. It pisses me off and irritates the
hell out of me because the "shit-stirring" is being done under the gise
of being "concerned". Basically, I've got a handful of people gossiping
about me- accusing me of replapsing into meth addiction. They've gone
to the General Manager...and are now trying to "catch" me smoking shit
in the bathroom- keeping time on how long I'm away from my desk. It's
so damn dumb, and I really want to say something- but I refuse to feed
into it at all. Fuck them if they think I'm gonna let them win.

Guess it's just my opinion that we all should stop wasting our breath
with rebuttals to the posts that are just created to antagonize
everyone. Why fan the flames? Let 'em talk...let them believe whatever
they want- nothing you say is going to change what they think anyhow.
And I could really give two shits what 99.9% of people think of me
anyhow. I know who I am, and I like who I am. All I have to do is
think of me and my peace of mind.

I could be wrong...but I doubt it.

no, your right on there.

AMEN Peachie ;-)

I'm gonna hide under Peachies desk its safe there :)..well cept this
donkey follwed m and now he poo'ed under the desk...better get
maintainence up here

heyyyy that ain't my poo...I'm housebroken :-P lol

Peachie you got somethin pooing under your desk lol

I could not agree more...

wow J..you know someone's pooing under peachies desk?? lmaooo

as long as there is no poo in my shoe its all good

yes "Peachy" but it got to the point where the emails were being flooded
with this bullies crap.
I only posted it to expose who it was,and we have done so,but thanx for
your imput............M.

good one peach

Peach, I haven't heard from you even though've emailed you. You all,
you will not hear from me again unless I see my name on the forum.
Believe me I can tell even when I'm alluded to--you know "that crazy old
bitch with wrinkles, or whatever. I'm going to others on this site. I
don't remember how old you are, but you are intelligent enough to know
that those born between l946 and l964 are a powerful force not to be be
be dealt with easily. Yes, we're entering crazy ol bitch and old
farthood. But with no resemblence (did I spell that right) to our mons
and grannies. So don't forget, we excercise til our gluts hurt, the men
use Viagra, and we women use Retin-A, Strivectin and repacement
estrogen. So forget the wrinkled old, dry saggy old bags. We're boomers
in case you haven't heard, we have money (except for me), smarts and it
takes alot to makes give in. Now with that said. LEAVE ME THE FUCK
ALONE! lOVE mEREDITH

What the world needs now, is love...sweet love...la,la,la,la,la

awsome peachie dead on the money. and Love thats another situation. the
only way love truely exists is through family.. when we say it to other
people that ladies and gentlemen is called ALL IN YOUR HEAD.

Wow I guess I missed the action. I wonder who is going to be the witch
hunt next? Thats what it seems like to me. To be honest with you if
someone has the personna on a site, its theres. If they lie to people
its something they have to deal with. If someone lies to me I walk away.
Yes it could hurt very much but thats the way this world is today. (The
school of hard knocks is painful)

Some people take pride in being able to hurt someone. Others are the
ones hurt. Those that jump on a bandwagon in a witch hunt are followers,
and the leaders are probably afraid themselves to be hurt. I know I
don't wish to be hurt. I say let those who lie find out what its like to
have no friends. Catch em in a lie. Ignore em, let them know you no
longer trust them. Someday they will look back and see why they are who
they are and only a miricle will save them.

Let there be peace and harmony in the souls you call friends. Thoses are
the friends I seek out. I agree with Peachie, its hard but it works.

G

you hit the nail right smack dab on the head.

yep. i hate drama.