I always thought girls said "chicks before d!cks"

"I once had a guy, or should I say, he once had me?"
Anyway, sorry for those of you who read this before. I moved home after living in VA for 35 yrs -3 yrs in Germany. I am on SS disability = retired from working. This guy I went to school with got in touch over classmates.com. We dated. He parties like no one I've ever met. He's good and thoughtful and I fell in love with him. We dated for about 9 months. I introduced him to my best friend,she is also disabled on SS, another school mate(we all graduated together) We were over. I encouraged them, but, I loved him. He did not love me anymore. They went out. They fell in love. Silly me thought we could all still be friends. They both dropped me like a hot rock!! Haven't spoken since the end of August. I guess they feel guilty! We could have stayed friends. Now I lost both of my best friends and all I did was introduce them!! It just suks. I'm over him. I'm over her. Funny, I miss her more than I miss him. It's just life! Sorry! You'll find someone new. Just forgive and forget. It's better for your heart, soul, mind and body. Huggs!

thnx :) i didnt introduce she took his number off my fone took his email addy off my msn contact list and now they go same colege but i work with him now muhahaha lmao it feels lik im trying to win somthin ill never win if u know what i eman :S i guess she has him not and i should get over it but easier sed than done tho!!

ahhhh ill be fine hopefully lmao!

I cried, Sept, Oct and Nov. It's not easy to get over. I am worthy of someone who loves me and makes me # 1 in his life and so are you!! It hurts, but, it will be less painful in time. I know that doesn't help you much now, but, your someone is out there!

i have met some 1 that treats me fantastic but hes gone bak 2 america for a week so i miss him soooo much if he was ere i would be able to cope but humm lol

I've been in similar situations a couple of times.

I've always stood back, and let them carry on. Its not my place to deny a friend a chance at happiness.

Wounds heal, you'll get over it.

In one of the cases where I did stand back, my ex and friend got married and claim to have found true love.

I got a warm fuzzy feeling inside when they told me, I was best man at the wedding, and years later they are still very much in love.

It was well worth the initial hurt to see them so happy.

Ta,

~C

P.S. I'm fortunate to be able to detach myself from my emotions, not everyone is so lucky. I understand how some people couldn't do that.

Maybe one day I'll detach myself just a little too much and go crazy.