my mate (ex mate now has recently said that she liked my ex she knew i still had feeling for him, so i said if you carry on ur going too lose me as a friend because she knew how i felt.

my ex said he liked me and asked if i liked him too i didnt answer and said id think about it because i wasnt completely sure last night because he had played me before i didnt want too be hurt again. he said he missed being with me and wished we was still together.

he then said he loved my mate loads i though oook :s whats going on.

then tonight he dropped a bomb shell on me that he really likes my ex mate i said ok good for you so why tal too me then and he said becuase i talk too any one he then accused me for being jealous no im not jealous i just didnt want him and my mate too get too gether because deep down i have feelings for him. he then said he has a girlfriend anyway i instantly knew it was charley (my mate) i asked him and said is it charley we said well... i asked her and i said if your with him i really dislike you... and she said hes you ex get over it youll never be with him again etc etc this made me feel like **** then i told her too never talk too me again dont even come near me.. luke (my ex) then said whats wrong with poor lil nice charley and i thought NICE get lost you dont know what she said he then said you should be happy that you mate has found som 1 and i said yh if it werent you ur my ex theres rules mates shouldnt go there obv and then i said well good luck with it dont ever talk too me again...

and i feel like **** ive been gfuming alll night and i dont know what too do i just cant be happy for them i just cant beleive charley would do such a thing i thought she was a mate and she crosses the line and gets with my ex that she knew i had a strong connection with and still liked which hurts more thats she told me 2 get other him shes 18 never been kissed has never had a boyfriend and her parents wont even let her out unless for college luke hardely saw me when we was together and i was able to get out he has a job now and ive been allso taken on at the same place so the thing is me and him will be seeing a lot of each other.
its not like i didnt warn her about him she heard me sobbing on the phone beacuse he was a **** i told my mates earlier and they said well if she doesnt think o ur feelings about this she deserves to get hurt.. i know this is harsh but :s

i just dont know what to do do i ignore it and get on with my life? i know i shouldnt dwell on the past but he was everything too me i loved him he was the first guy i fell for and he said hed never and wil never feel the same towards another girl. theyve only been talkin a couple weeks and he allreadi says he loves her loads! is he trying to get to me for saying ill think about liking him? or does he genuinely like her? i dont like the thought shes taken my place in his life she started acting like me a week ago she dyed her hair 2 light brown and is on a diet (shes size 20) my mates where trying too cheer me up and say shes ugly shes fat etc etc but then again if she was y would he go for her. he seemed quiet embarrased about the fact tho and they both havent said anything too any one!! argh i just dont know any more!!
i hate this feelings that my heart been torn out by a best mate me n charley ave loads o pics o each other messin bout etc n it hurts we ave sooo amny memorys i just dont know why she would oo such a thing too a mate unless i wasnt as special too her than she was too me but i just dont want too be her mate anymore!! ive told my mates not 2 invite me out wen shes there and they said they wont invite her out at all i dont want that i dnt wanan ave sides jus want charley too realise shes done wrong!!!!

thnx if u read this any ways :D really needed to get it off my chest! n if u help even better lmao!!

im pretty sure one of those paragraphs was just one big run-on sentence...

well anyways your mate or ex mate needs to understand that friends are more important than sexual/romantic interests.

if you learned that lesson from this, you can apply it to your own life and become a better person from it.

Sisters before misters......your friend will get hers cuz Karma is a biotch!!

exactly but she dont think that way she only thinks o her self obviousley when it comes too her life i give em a month he asked me out on the 16th 20th was his bday 24th xmas n now he jus asked her out coinsidence i think not. lmao i know its pretty long haha

it is indeed lmao thnx made me chuckle :)

Doesn't matter how she sees it!! Life has a funny way of teaching us valuable lessons. In the end she will have no boyfriend and will really regret lossing a friend for a meaningless relationship.....

shes actually lost a few mates from it because im more closer and known them longer and they went through my tear when i was with them so they was rather pissed that shes done that they rang her tell her too stay outta their lives :s tryin stoppin em but once som 1s minds set hard 2 change it lol

She's young and we all do stupid stuff....it's part of growing up and learing....

true true

first of all your so called mate is really uncool true friends do not cross those boundries. About him if he talking bad about her to you know he's said sh*t about you to. seems everyone knows anything about loyalty! He is not the man for you, what really have you done to be treated like this! Do you feel like you deserve to be hurt again by him. Move on!

ya know men have that same saying, bro's before ho's

awww just forget about him and come be with me i picked this flower for you and i hope you like it

i have no idea what ive done too deserve 2 be hurt from him again thats y i was cousouse about sayin if i liekd him or not (cant spell)

hehe thnx :p i have forgotten ish about him dnt help wen he does stuff like thst :s

Well just the fact that you were cautious about getting involved w/ him again is enough to tell you to move on!! Forget your friend.....she will learn her lesson and hopefully be a better friend to someone else in the future!

Karma! listen to ppl when they say that..heres a lil something to think about..
my cousins boyfriend was with her for 4 years till he left her for OUR close friend..she was so damn hurt..we both stopped being friends with her of course..a year later we find out our ex friend gave her ex boyfriend AIDS...
NO MATTER WHAT IT COMES BACK ON PPL 4 SCREWING U OVER..NO WORRIES UR BEAUTIFUL UR HEART WILL HEAL N U WILL FIND SOMETHING BETTER! GIVE IT TIME CHICA!!

i have moved on ive got a guy im sortof seeing but its the whole fact shes with him has anoyed me lmao it probs will seem stupid too me in the future and ill think too myself i was an idiot! i do hope she learns her lessons from it tho :s dnt want her 2 get hurt but if thats wat appens

awww thnxies lol

cheers to the relationships we have all been strong enough to move on from

lmao yupos i should b as strong as a 3 layer brick wall from all the relationships ive come out of! i recon i trust ppl too easy :s