Which is the way to go now a days? With all the post modern feminism it's hard to tell if a relationship is the right move. Any ideas?

Be yourself. Find out where the woman is at. The rest should follow...

What exactly is post modern feminism?

watch the new Aladdin movie, and see how it should be called the Jasmine movie and you'll figure it out. It's the concept of equality, yet is pushes the envelope and give more entitlement instead.

I guess it comes down to what you want, be upfront early on as to what you are looking for, no point in establishing a relationship with someone looking for something different in my opinion, unless you are prepared to settle for something someone else wants, then it doesn't really matter which way you go.

So you base your info on how you interpret a Disney Movie, feel emasculated by it and now you allegedly don't know what to do?
Maybe some personal growth & development so an empowered woman doesn't make you feel threatened anymore would be a nice start.

Based on this ^^^,
I strongly recommend you keep a latex patch kit handy,
for those occasions your inflata-date springs a leak.

Hook up.
As often as possible.
Leave as much progeny behind as possible.
Use a fake name to save that pesky support. Leave it to the government.
Move state to state.
Focus on your own selfish gratification.
That's all that really matters.
You win if you procreate (especially if it's a girl, inherent victimhood = more gov't money, more money = greater potential partners for procreation!).
You win if you have the best experiences, and post them on facebook to make everyone else jealous.


A relationship is only the "right" move for the sake of keeping kids alive.
Since there's welfare and Jerry Springer/Maury Povich, relationships are ultimately pointless. Their only value is in what meaning you choose to give them, which is ultimately just the value you give yourself and what you think you get out of them.

As long as you leave something to pass on your genes, and there is general civil order and a group effort to value your kid and keep it alive despite you, relationships will always have a shelf life and no "real" value (beyond what you rationalize or delude yourself into believing them as having).

Feminism is just a bunch of BS, identity politics and posturing. It really doesn't matter.
As long as you can knock up a girl and run off? Feminism doesn't matter.
As soon as there's a national DNA database they mandate everyone be a part of so they can always find you to tax you and force you to take care of your kid, or use as some sort of means of deciding if you can/can't procreate, then feminism might matter.


Knowing is half the battle!
G.I Joooooeeee!

Makes sense to me and that's what works for me.

Keep it simple, be honest and up front. It may take a while but as they say "there's someone for everyone".