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Topic: question
DebbieJT's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:15 AM


this guy is also a heavy potsmoker,(nothing against people who choose to do it) I just find dating is like buying a car, u decide which one is best for u/

WELL, THAT EXPLAINS IT THEN..........IT'S HIS POT SUPPLIER ON THE OTHER END I BET.............sad
lol

goddess_110's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:17 AM
debbie, i would agree with u, however when his male friends call he puts them on speaker, never does not answer

Jill298's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:18 AM

debbie, i would agree with u, however when his male friends call he puts them on speaker, never does not answer
Then you seem to know he's lying, I think you already know what you should do... You can't have a relationship full of doubts everytime his phone rings.

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:19 AM
its def not right hun ...so you have the answer you need

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Tue 12/11/07 09:19 AM
HEY BABE, SOUNDS TO ME YOU SHOULD GET OUT WHILE THE GETTIN IS GOOD..............DON'T INVOLVE YOURSELF WITH ANY OF THAT.........

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Tue 12/11/07 09:28 AM
i have one question for you goddess............all the inputs you got from us, do we get a free pizza from you? :wink: bigsmile have a great day babe......

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Tue 12/11/07 09:36 AM
if i lived closer i would send it right now lol

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Tue 12/11/07 09:39 AM
lol.......if you lived closer, we both would enjoy a great pizza...............:smile: ...........i hope everything goes good for you..........you take care goddess........:wink:

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Tue 12/11/07 09:40 AM
man goddess your a beautiful women you deserve better then that if he cant be honest get ride of him

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Tue 12/11/07 09:40 AM
Honey, just the opinion of an "Old Man"... If it walks like a duck, if it quacks like a duck, rest assured, it is a duck..

Turn around and walk the other way..


(((hugs)))

JoeKur's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:43 AM

Honey, just the opinion of an "Old Man"... If it walks like a duck, if it quacks like a duck, rest assured, it is a duck..

Turn around and walk the other way..


(((hugs)))


And watch him Walk like a Duck!

Sorry, dude, couldn't resist...
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CurvesssDaytona's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:52 AM
it is interesting goddess that you are asking advice about something you already know in your heart. I think the issue is not whether he is a playa but whether you want to call it quits. Must be SOME reason why you are willing to put up with this CRAP from him or anyone.

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Tue 12/11/07 09:53 AM


Honey, just the opinion of an "Old Man"... If it walks like a duck, if it quacks like a duck, rest assured, it is a duck..

Turn around and walk the other way..


(((hugs)))


And watch him Walk like a Duck!

Sorry, dude, couldn't resist...
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this is a toss up: a duck or a snake.........i couldn't resist......bigsmile

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Tue 12/11/07 02:12 PM
Why is it that all the beautiful ladies, when faced with a choice between a loser and a nice guy, tend to pick the loser?

Next time you are at his trailer, look around his junk mail pile for his cell phone bill that I'll bet he hasn't paid.

Check out the numbers he calls frequently...then you will learn the truth...and the TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!

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Tue 12/11/07 02:14 PM
Thats funny. I like when they say its their Godsister. Jealousy is probably an issue but if you have been hurt by someone in the past then its just normal to think that. You have get over it or flat out ask.

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Tue 12/11/07 03:26 PM
just walk away. anybody spends that much time talking to their cousin is suspicious. I actually was introduced by an ex as her cousin to a current date when I showed up to see her. She was my gf at the time . . .not after thatdrinker

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Tue 12/11/07 03:42 PM
ugh...i think everyone is overreacting.

Your question was "how do you not go crazy" when something like this happens. I'll answer that: balance. Get more in touch with your male friends just for the sake of friendship (yes we can be friends too; stop seeing us like pieces of meat lol), and one day you'll get a call from one of them while you are with your boyfriend or whatever you wanna call him. I say that if someone's playin you, just play back with a bright attitude.

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