Ok so say you meet a girl. Your not officially together. But spending lots of nights together and yes your ****ing. Meanwhile she is on this site for the first 3-4 weeks having some pretty intense text sex with lots of pic swapping . And keeps popping on randomly to msg some people. And then yesterday msgs some guys trying to hook up, and that night sleeps at a guys house whome is just a friend apparently ... I found this all out this morning. So what do you think?

That should should "cover your rig" when doing this girl...lord knows who ELSE she's doing that you don't know about.

Wish I know in December

There are plenty of guys on here doing the exact same thing. To each their own. You have to figure out if you are just after sex or a relationship.

I think you already know the answer - just by posting the question on here.

Good luck in your search!

whats the game, again?

It's apparent this girl is having good times with other guys so the question is do you want to continue the way it is or do you want to find someone that is more serious about a relationship?

Lmao off not. That's dishonest, disloyal and shows no respect

Who are you replying to?

I think I'll have another drink.



So, just what is the problem?

With the layout of the original post,
it appears to be a casual sex thing.
Not a committed relationship.

The woman is somehow "evil",
because she moved on, before dood was ready?
Really?


You got dumped. Move on.

Is there any cheese to go with that whine?

we been together a couple months now

well not anymore

anyway I don't think of you got what the question was, and not really into breaking down the simplest taste of answering wrong/not wrong thanks for your time

Apparently the woman doesn't think it is wrong for her.

Yea I figured that much out oh well I moved out and she's asking me to come back. So pretty much I asked how exactly she that she would be trusted again (smh)

What so difficult? You had a sex thing going on, she was also spending time with others, likely sexercising them too. So?? What's the question?
You knew it wasn't official, doesn't sound you have feelings for this woman other than sexual. If you'd be in love you wouldn't say ****ing.
Matter of a bruised ego. Is it wrong? No. Why should it be. You had nothing together other than casual sex, NSA.
Get over it.

According to what you've posted here about this, it doesn't appear that TRUST is the right or accurate word to use.

In your setup post, you say "Your not officially together." As in, you describe a situation where, without any discussion about commitment or of what kind of relationship you are in, you started regularly having sex with the woman.

Apparently from this "I moved out", you actually MOVED INTO HER PLACE at some point. Again, still without agreeing even on any vague guidelines. At least, so far as you've told us, you never even once brought up the idea of monogamy.

Logically, therefore, this doesn't have anything at all to do with TRUST, it has to do only with what YOU chanced to ASSUME, and what she did not.

The logical question is, do you think she WILL live up to a vow of monogamy, if you elicit one from her, and before that, are you capable of setting aside your emotional upset at realizing that you were just one of many guys she was "enjoying?"

If either of those answers is "no," then obviously the discussion is over.

Word of advice to OP Htjohn89..

Do NOT move in with ANYONE untill you know for sure and certain they can be trusted *and* that both of you are on the same page WRT what you expect out of the relationship.

I mean, the fact she was seeing other guys...d**m dude...at least that's *all* she did..she could have robbed your a** blind...