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Didn't we have this topic a few weeks ago?
I currently have three* regular FWB with no drama. All that's required is honesty from the very beginning! I do have morals and don't play with married women or the otherwise attached. I can't imagine living in a large metro area** and not being able to find any friends or living under the assumption that women over 50 no longer have desires. My three regular friends are 47 (teacher), 53 (nurse) and 60 (retired). Treat them with respect and kindness and, yes! They'll return the treatment. * Actually it's four but the fourth is kind of a special situation and semi regular 60 (lawyer). ** I live in the middle of NEBRASKA, the tri cities area with a total population maybe 150.000. |
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friends with benefits? Agree? It's not for me, I prefer a romantic relationship which hopefully turns into something long term. |
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Not for me either. I get emotionally attached too easily. Plus, it'd stop me from finding that great partner.
Then there's STDs. I have considered it when I was younger, out of marriage and not looking for another relationship. But it would've had to be exclusive. I've also found that finding a good matching sexual partner is almost more difficult than a romantic partner. All in all, I rather take care of my own needs. No complications, no obligations, no STDs, no hassle. Just sex is not fulfilling for me anyways. |
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Not for me either. I get emotionally attached too easily. Plus, it'd stop me from finding that great partner. Then there's STDs. I have considered it when I was younger, out of marriage and not looking for another relationship. But it would've had to be exclusive. I've also found that finding a good matching sexual partner is almost more difficult than a romantic partner. All in all, I rather take care of my own needs. No complications, no obligations, no STDs, no hassle. Just sex is not fulfilling for me anyways. It usually ends up that way for me too... getting too emotionally attached. I go back and forth with it, even knowing that it doesn't really work for me. But ultimately like Crystal said, finding a good matching sexual partner is difficult and I'm not really willing to put all that time and effort into finding it when I can take care of myself. Just sex with a man isn't fulfilling or satisfying to me. I always end up feeling unfulfilled and like there was something missing... and there was... intimacy! |
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If she works at Cabela's, and can score me the benefit of her employee discount when I buy guns, count me in. This but well I'm gonna need some cheaper car insurance as well and maybe a credit card cause well I'm a girl 🤠|
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Edited by
ctr916
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Tue 07/16/19 05:53 AM
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Didn't we have this topic a few weeks ago? I currently have three* regular FWB with no drama. All that's required is honesty from the very beginning! I do have morals and don't play with married women or the otherwise attached. I can't imagine living in a large metro area** and not being able to find any friends or living under the assumption that women over 50 no longer have desires. My three regular friends are 47 (teacher), 53 (nurse) and 60 (retired). Treat them with respect and kindness and, yes! They'll return the treatment. * Actually it's four but the fourth is kind of a special situation and semi regular 60 (lawyer). ** I live in the middle of NEBRASKA, the tri cities area with a total population maybe 150.000. i would agree with you, in most normal circumstances where "no limits need to be overcome." in my case, it is a simple argument. Men have arguments. it is about equality and gender relations. women complain about men only wanting sex but don't harass us for sex when they just want sex. it is about equality. men should be able to also say, i feel fat, and have gangs of women trying to coddle them in private. |
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what about, short, medium, and long term relationships?
any women into "time management"? |
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