Ok so heres the thing the person im with wants me to meet theyre family for the first time for Christmas and im really nervous!!!!
But @ the same time I want em to meet mine what do I do

coin toss...the winner get Christmas...the loser gets New Years

meet and greet

Try to make time to meet both famlies. Good Luck

Why don't you go to there house in the morning or early afternoon and then go to your house in the evening

True...
Im juss really nervous because I dont know if theyre family is gonna like me theyre older than me and im young...

All you can do man is be yourself age really shouldn't matter.

true that lol i feel wierd saying that

totally understand .. I date younger all the time, and it is a bit awkward sometimes when you meet people you know, but heck take the risk. you gotta do it sometime.

i think the biggest thing relatives aka loved ones wanna see is whether you are good to their 'own' ..ie your woman. If you are you win one for the scoreboard.

If not you take one for the team

go somwhere hot and enjoy each other....lol

go meet hers, then she can meet yours

Ughh...
I hate being so nervous....I mean I wanna meet her family but at the same time im really scared of it because im scared her family isnt gonna like me

It's an opportunity dude. I used to be so nervous at job interviews, think a million things that could disqualify me, now I think of the million things that I bring to the table that make me better than other candidates. This is the opportunity to show them that you're a respectful good guy who likes their daughter/sister for the right reasons. Talk to your girl see if her parents have a certain hobby or like certain music then find a small gift that shows you took the time to learn a little about them. Firm handshakes, eye contact, dress casual but sharp. Compliment their home, help clear the dishes if you're over for dinner and ask if you can help them with anything. You'll get some points for that.

Buy a nice bottle of wine or vodka or scotch for either meeting.... You'll need it.

Have you even meet each other? In person I mean!

Awwwwww! What's not to like. Have confidence. You'll be just fine!! Merry Christmas!

Meet the family &

Just wear a t-shirt that says, "I'm her Sex Toy"

No one will bother you then....

Nice

Im just really nervous...
I keep gettin told by my girlfriends friends and everything oh theyre gonna love you dont worry!!! And its just I dont wanna say or do the wrong thing and make them hate me..Also her parents are really picky about who she dates you know

Seriously, don't worry about it. Meeting the family is never a bad thing. Most of the time you'll find out you get along with them fairly well.