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Topic: DO YOU THINK ITS APPROPRIATE...
Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Thu 02/21/19 12:27 AM
After dad died my mom shacked up with one of my childhood friends. The same friend who fell thru the river ice and I pulled to safety. They were happy but it was bad for my sister and I but they were happy but it was bad for me but they were happy but it was bad for me. I felt betrayed by my friend and ashamed of my mom. My relationship with mom was terrible anyway and this just pushed it over the edge. What YOU do is really no concern of mine. My current gf's parents are 5 and 8 years older than me. I've really got nothing for you. So far, I'm pretty comfortable with my choice. Just make sure you choose wisely and you'll be okay.

Lpdon Joined Thu 02/25/10 Posts: 18772	Thu 02/21/19 01:09 AM
To each his/her own. I don't think it's anyone's business who someone chooses to date. For me personally... it would feel awkward and a little weird, he'd be around the same age as my sons. Well I, I mean SHE (haha) doesnt have any kids. And hes definitely not childlike. Hes a Professional Pool Player. Could be fun, tell your friend to go for it if you, I mean she wants Even though it would be awkward, it would definitely be a boost to my ego... and since guys my age don't seem to be interested, why not? Yeah, but you don't want the guy your dating to start singing songs from the movie Frozen or have to go to Chuck E' Cheese when you go on dates......

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Thu 02/21/19 02:36 AM
To each his/her own. I don't think it's anyone's business who someone chooses to date. For me personally... it would feel awkward and a little weird, he'd be around the same age as my sons. Well I, I mean SHE (haha) doesnt have any kids. And hes definitely not childlike. Hes a Professional Pool Player. Could be fun, tell your friend to go for it if you, I mean she wants Even though it would be awkward, it would definitely be a boost to my ego... and since guys my age don't seem to be interested, why not? Yeah, but you don't want the guy your dating to start singing songs from the movie Frozen or have to go to Chuck E' Cheese when you go on dates...... Have you ever played in one of those ball pits as an adult... they're awesome! Nothing wrong with letting the little kid inside of us come out to play. Regardless of age, most will pick someone with similar interests and do things they both enjoy doing... even if it's singing songs from cartoon movies!

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Thu 02/21/19 12:02 PM
Dating, well, why not. His mother doesn't even need to know. Sex is bound to be fantastic as a younger bloke is still fully functional. Don't think all older "blokes" are not fully functional! I'm 62 and function as good as ever, maybe better! Youth doesn't always mean GIB I've been told several times, several. Havent slept with him, just a few dates. I dont move fast like that.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Thu 02/21/19 12:11 PM
Ya'll are funny! No there was not a drunken night that led to me dating him. There has been and will be no sex unless we fall in love. Hes legal, 30. And really right now we are just good friends, (no benefits). I dont care about whos good in bed. I care more who has a good heart, treats me nice, and is fun to be with. I dont see this as long term thing, more of a friendship. And Totage was really just curious what all of your input would be, (I guess I should not have put it into a question form). (You look amazing BTW..long time!) He doesnt do Frozen, or Chucky Cheese. And thanks for all of your input. Minglers always have, and always will rock!

Sarah Joined Thu 02/21/19 Posts: 8	Thu 02/21/19 05:47 PM
To date a guy who's mother is younger than you? Asking for a friend...yeah thats it, for a friend. I'd need a serious talk with myself if his mother was younger than me. It would certainly be a wake-up call.

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Fri 02/22/19 12:03 AM
I agree with others. It only matters if there is an issue with it. But, considering how it might affect others in both of your familes and how that might affect you or him. Care should certainly be taken. Its more than just the two of you, its also everyone that is important to the both of you. If you ruin his relationship with his parents or your relationship with yours, that's important in the long run. Choose wisely.

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Fri 02/22/19 01:54 AM
Ya'll are funny! No there was not a drunken night that led to me dating him. There has been and will be no sex unless we fall in love. Hes legal, 30. And really right now we are just good friends, (no benefits). I dont care about whos good in bed. I care more who has a good heart, treats me nice, and is fun to be with. I dont see this as long term thing, more of a friendship. And Totage was really just curious what all of your input would be, (I guess I should not have put it into a question form). (You look amazing BTW..long time!) He doesnt do Frozen, or Chucky Cheese. And thanks for all of your input. Minglers always have, and always will rock! You totally rock Luv! I'm happy for you that you found a good friend to do fun things together

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Fri 02/22/19 02:48 AM
To date a guy who's mother is younger than you? Asking for a friend...yeah thats it, for a friend. Be nice. Offer to let his mom clean your yard, while you're out with him, playing Whack-A-Mole at Chuck E. Cheese.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 02/22/19 08:25 AM
To date a guy who's mother is younger than you? Asking for a friend...yeah thats it, for a friend. Be nice. Offer to let his mom clean your yard, while you're out with him, playing Whack-A-Mole at Chuck E. Cheese.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 02/22/19 08:26 AM
To date a guy who's mother is younger than you? Asking for a friend...yeah thats it, for a friend. I'd need a serious talk with myself if his mother was younger than me. It would certainly be a wake-up call. I talk to myself all the time.. I like who I am.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 02/22/19 08:35 AM
Ya'll are funny! No there was not a drunken night that led to me dating him. There has been and will be no sex unless we fall in love. Hes legal, 30. And really right now we are just good friends, (no benefits). I dont care about whos good in bed. I care more who has a good heart, treats me nice, and is fun to be with. I dont see this as long term thing, more of a friendship. And Totage was really just curious what all of your input would be, (I guess I should not have put it into a question form). (You look amazing BTW..long time!) He doesnt do Frozen, or Chucky Cheese. And thanks for all of your input. Minglers always have, and always will rock! You totally rock Luv! I'm happy for you that you found a good friend to do fun things together I love you Riverspirit!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 02/22/19 09:25 AM
Aw thanks Kitten. Yeah, it's been a while. Glad to see you back. You're looking pretty rawrtastic as usual, yourself. ;) Never hurts to have a special friend in your life, and if you do end up dating and it doesn't work out, hopefully you two get a good adventure out of it. Either way, live your life like you stole it (well, maybe not STOLE it, but you know what I mean). :)

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Fri 02/22/19 01:26 PM
Ya'll are funny! No there was not a drunken night that led to me dating him. There has been and will be no sex unless we fall in love. Hes legal, 30. And really right now we are just good friends, (no benefits). I dont care about whos good in bed. I care more who has a good heart, treats me nice, and is fun to be with. I dont see this as long term thing, more of a friendship. And Totage was really just curious what all of your input would be, (I guess I should not have put it into a question form). (You look amazing BTW..long time!) He doesnt do Frozen, or Chucky Cheese. And thanks for all of your input. Minglers always have, and always will rock! You totally rock Luv! I'm happy for you that you found a good friend to do fun things together I love you Riverspirit!

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Fri 02/22/19 01:29 PM
Whatchoo asking me for? I can't even find my azz with a mirror and a flashlight!

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 02/22/19 04:29 PM
Aw thanks Kitten. Yeah, it's been a while. Glad to see you back. You're looking pretty rawrtastic as usual, yourself. ;) Never hurts to have a special friend in your life, and if you do end up dating and it doesn't work out, hopefully you two get a good adventure out of it. Either way, live your life like you stole it (well, maybe not STOLE it, but you know what I mean). :)

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 02/22/19 04:30 PM
Whatchoo asking me for? I can't even find my azz with a mirror and a flashlight! FOUND IT!

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Sat 02/23/19 01:05 AM


FrenchIrishEngineer Joined Sun 07/29/18 Posts: 6	Sat 03/02/19 12:12 PM
Absolutely, The world is changing and the old stigma's of the past are outdated. I'm attracted to older women. So have at it, and enjoy this beautiful life we have because you never know when it will end. ~Jameson

I_love_bluegrass Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 1665	Sat 03/02/19 12:42 PM
Absolutely, The world is changing and the old stigma's of the past are outdated. I'm attracted to older women. So have at it, and enjoy this beautiful life we have because you never know when it will end. ~Jameson It's not about stigmas, ro anything.. It's about what one person prefers.. Not everyone wants the same thing.. I have zero interest in someone much younger or older.. I'll never tell someone else what they should like/ prefer, to each their own..... But there sure seem to be a lot of young guys who want to argue with me about my preferences...(which, incidentally, disregarding a woman's prefernces & boundaries is NOT a great way to start off)...and evidently have trouble with understranding the word NO.