I have a guy we just enjoyed each other company at first.I went and got deeper feelings I asked him please if u are going to have many sex partners please leave me alone..He did not consider my feelings and cheeted in me .my heart is broke...I mean it it hurts

hi babe you ok sorry to here that message me lets chat xxx hope to here

Come to me

Some guys are just twits

Some Women won't leave men alone !

perhaps you should have chosen a different word to "many" that is subjective . Sometimes you have to spell out clearly what you want .

As in some always fall for the wrong guys?

Bastard!

Yes! The ones that don't really want them .

I'm with Blondey, on the choice of the word
'many'.

So she loses, as well as the guys, who want them from the bottom of their heart.

Um, this is Babe:

Well, as I'm sorry to hear you seem to have fallen for a bad guy, at the same time it seems that you acknowledge his wrong doings, but may be failing to acknowledge your wrong doings. In my experience it does no good and is very unproductive to play the blame game, so to speak, really at the end of the day both parties share blame its really irrelevant as to who shares more or what kind of blame.

You can't blame yourself for HIS actions, but you can admit your own faults to yourself and acknowledge your own actions and make changes to better yourself to avoid such situations in the future, but you also must be careful as to not place every guy you date from this point on in the place of your ex (or so I hope he is an ex now). Everyone is different and deserves an equal chance. This is not to say to leave yourself unguarded, but don't make the next one pay for the wrong doings of the last.

Anyway, hopefully that's not something you need to address right now, as at this time you need to heal from your hurt so that you can move forward. Now it's time to lick your wounds, stumble to your feet and keep running forward, not looking at what's behind you, but what's ahead.

In relationships we usually have expectations. If you choose to accept less than you need. Decide whether you can live with the reflection in the mirror.

I agree with Totage.

I agree too.

Every single failure on the part of someone else traces back for me to the fact that I chose poorly.
So, instead of blaming others for doing what others do, I try to learn from my experiences and use my gained wisdom to choose wisely.

Hang in there..

have a belt...

upgrade your account and get crackin and find another guy ..

Exactly,

It's easy to blame others, but what's more productive is to to honest with ourselves and admit and acknowledge our own short comings and do what we can to improve ourselves.

Not to attack or blame the OP, but at the same time OP needs to see their own faults and work on those rather than focusing on the faults of others that they can't control.

Okay...

You told him it's okay, as long as, he doesn't have
"many" sex partners.

The magic word, "many".


Have you considered, the mixed message that might
be to some people?