I agree rosie.... Ultimately this is all I really want. The rest is just frosting. None of it matters if you don't have someone to love who loves you back.

they need support, care from a rustwort person

Thats right

Why you are down?

well I'm new and I treat women like supposed to and the just want to be friends not more am I doing something wrong or right

Are we talking about just any woman in general or a woman that one desires? Those are related but not necessarily the same.

Mostly a woman wants to know that her man sees her as special....unique...one of a kind. She needs to know that your compliments aren't just flattery trying to get lucky. She needs to know that she is noticed by her man for who she is in every way on every day.

After that she needs security, someone who will protect her and consider her safety in every situation. Someone who is committed to her on good and bad days, someone who will support her when she's right and counsel her (not fix or correct her) when she isn't.

She needs to feel safe enough to share her deepest secrets with a loyal man.

And she needs a good dicking every once in a while. hehehehe...and you thought I was doing so good until then, right?

I'm really mystified..
Where are all these women going that they need "protection"..??
"Protection" from *what*, exactly?

I am 57, and the last time I rememeber I was in a bad siuation/ could have used some "protecting'" was when I got date-raped...and that was almost 40years ago..


Secondly...a YES to your comment about secrets..

I have made the mistake of telling a couple guys I was involved with such things and it was either thrown back in mny face..or told to other people..and, no..this was NOT back in high school days..
So now, it is extremely hard for me to confide in *anyone*...(my late husband was the only one in recent times)

Start a topic in the Rate My Profile forum in order to find out.

All Women's are respectable without her we are nothing

Unfortunately, it doesn't much matter where they are, women need protection. Not necessarily talking about from physical violence (though that's possible) as much as just watching out for her in all situations.

Protection includes providing a safe place, a home where she can be herself. It includes paying the bills so she doesn't have to worry about being homeless and begging. Things have changed a lot in that regard these days, but still she needs to know that she won't be abandoned.

Any guy who just says "yes" to any demand or request she makes is actually eroding her confidence in him. He ends up coming across as an ***-kisser who only cares about getting sex because he's a "nice" guy.

But if you want her to feel respect and love for you, it's best that you maintain control of your emotions when she gets emotional. If a man can't laugh at some of that silly stuff and let it go, she will feel idolized more than loved. That's just weird.

But when she gets the least bit afraid, vulnerable or unsure about something, her man needs to show confidence and a protective masculinity.

I think they want to be happy , having a nice man , be comfortable financially and having a good sex life with their partners.

Thank's for the clarification on your part.

Generally, in *my* experiences (not someone else's..*mine* only) the guys that make with the "protect" stuff are usually domly doms/ wanna-be doms...basically just a**hole, controlling alpha-type guys...the ones who expect to be the "head of the household" and have the inal say in things.

IOf that's what a woman wants, I'll not tell her she is wring, but..me?
Nah...I earn my own money, no one tells me what to do or rules over me..
My dad did, when I was a child and lived in his house and was dependant on him for everything..but, that's it.

It's a partnership, a team, or I'm not interested.
I don't need a boss/ father.

A Man with a good sense of humor! But intelligent enough to know how to respect a woman.

Those needy women I can do without! I'm not their babysitter and keeper. It gets very old in a short time and then they don't listen anyway!

I can't speak for ALL women, but I don't just want affection from a man. I also want intimacy with a man. The flow of conversation also needs to go well between us both. And don't slap me for saying the next bit, but I have to feel physically attracted to a man, before I want to be with him. I know how shallow that sounds, but I can't have sex with a man that I don't find physically attractive.

LOL
*I* can't have sex with someone who I am not attracted to mentally/ intellectually..
If we have nothing in common, nothing to talk about, or are polar opposites WRT cetain things..I don't care how he looks..the hoo-hoo just clamps shut...

Blame it on being an INTJ or whatever...

Thank you for that vivid description which is now in my head!

Me, myself, I'd like a man whose all heart! Guys , not all women are after money n possessions. They're are some rare women left, like myself, whose just after the one thing alot of guys won't give, the heart! That's all it takes!

Why is it so important to know what women want?
Women is plural are you interested in more than one?

Isn't it more important to know what that one special woman wants?
Buddy, if you can't figure that out, go back to grade school.

Y'all make it out to be some mystical thing but its not really that hard to figure out if you know the woman you are interested in.

Know yourself and you will know what you have that women want.
Duh!

that's true i agree with you