True, but from talking to her, she doesnt seem like that kind of person,

They never do... just keep your eyes open please. You seem like a good guy, I'd really hate to see another good guy get hurt by some shady chick with dishonest intentions

Thanks, alot! Thats what is bothering me the most, the way it happend, her driving 40 mins to meet me, it was like she only wanted a night of wild crazy sex w/ an 18 year old, but then again, nothing happend, and the other night she did ask me if i was willing to take on 2 kids that arent mine, and if i had my stuff together. And when she invited me to her bed, i dont think she was looking to "sleep"

Haha, too bad ya live so far away, I'd have to give that chick a run for her money

lol.. that would be nice!! , i just hope she thought it was cute and not a big turn off, now its bothering me.... she actually invited me to her bed...omg... no..she was NOT looking to "sleep" she was looking for something else, and i didnt deliver! I guess its b/c i was really intimidated, but i really hope that i will get another go at it, even if the relationship thing doesnt work, i can still have some fun, and learn along the way!

Is it possible that your nervousness was your instincts telling you that it wasn't right? Thats usually the only time i get 'nervous' is when my gut tells me its just not okay, or that they're a total wolf in sheep's clothing. Do you normally get nervous around women? Ask yourself that. Were you MORE nervous with her than most other situations? Its possible that her intentions were to just let you be her 'boy toy' while she decides what she really wants. Its also possible that you did the right thing by listening to your instincts, even if you didn't realize at the time that it may have been what was holding you back.

you had the opportunity to 'seal the deal' and you blew it....
doesn't mean you won't get another chance....just remember, WEAR A CONDOM!!! cause this lady is a baby waiting to happen(already did twice).....

she ain't looking at you for a Daddy(though she probably doesn't know what she wants).....for that she would find someone over 30....

thanks, thats really ... ummmm... encouraging...

what are you 18?....you don't want to be Daddy to somebody elses kids....you have a whole life ahead of you....

just be careful.....Very careful

trust me, i will be careful, and if you really care about the person, the kids shouldnt matter

you have no idea what you are saying, it does matter....you are still young & inexperienced....you don't want to be a Daddy of someone else's kids when you are only 18....& you don't want to be creating any of your own just yet....

live life, have fun....no need to get tied down yet...& truly Wear A Condom, maybe two with her

i beleive that u are more mature for your age..... for the simple fact you are thinking about all this before acting on it..... that is awesome... as a matter of fact... i beleive u to be more mature than she is ..... for the fact that she is 26.... meets a guy off of online... for the first time and has him spend the night in her home? were her kids there? and..... what do you think you want out of a mother of your children? do you want her to do everything to protect your children from potential very dangerious situations? for thinking about it first!!!!

If she was looking for the one night hook-up, she'd have taken it and not waited for you. She very possibly is impressed that you did just sleep. The key is communication. If this girl is that important to you, keep at it. I know the hormones of an 18 year old are hard to control, but you might consider talking more and holding off on the sex a bit more. Just so you don't get hurt.

Women can be masterminds at hiding their true intentions...like Hollywood fantasy level masterminds. seriously lol. Just don't let your emotions block your reasoning to be seeing clearly. That being, said, don't restrict your good feelings. Thoroughly enjoy them! Just don't let them control you.


Just a common sense reminder... you should never layer two condoms at the same because the contact between the two rubber surfaces can create friction that results in a higher probability of a CONDOM BREAK. Basic sex ed.

Cheif, lol, and to everyone, thank you so much for all of your advice, but,unfortuanly, the 26 year old, divorced woman, with to kids, just told me that i'm to young for her, and that we could be friends. And not to take it personal, but yet and still she deletes me off of her myspace... oh well... time to find another "woman"!

Keep your head up. When you find the right one, you'll know it.

sorry for your luck soldier, but it sounds like you can do better anyway. with the way to talk it sounds like any woman would be lucky to have you

"i" before "e"

Sorry about that CHIEF, i'm kind of pissed and i just got home from a 4 hour wrestling practice! Especially to you Chief, thank you for all of your help, even though it didnt work out, i can really use your advice in the future!

I would love to know how old her kids are and if they were home that night she brought a stranger into her home and bed.

I know you're going to do what your other head tells you to do. But, I would stay far away from her. What can she offer you besides sex? Then again, if that's all you want.....Buy a case of condoms.

I just read where you said she told you, you were too young...She did you a favor.