1 3 Next
Topic: i need some advice
lonelyMPsoldier's photo
Tue 12/11/07 04:04 PM
The kids are ages 3 & 5, and they were not there.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:58 PM
Edited by JaymeStephens84a0lc on Tue 12/11/07 09:59 PM
I guess now you can just cut your losses (if you count a 26 y/o divorcee` with 2 kids as a loss)and move on. You're 18, and most people don't find the one for quite a while later. I personally keep hoping I'll find it young so I CAN have 50 years w/ a person...lol, but at the rate I'm going I'll be lucky to find it before the AGE of 50...LOL

no photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:07 PM
I think you find what you want when you aren't looking. Or so they say...

lonelyMPsoldier's photo
Wed 12/12/07 09:02 AM
Jayme, i'm sure there are plenty of great guys that would want to be with you! I know i would!

Katydid, thank you!, but sometimes it gets hard.

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 09:11 AM
Well, you're still really, really young, so don't be in so much of a hurry. Enjoy the fact that- technically- you're still a teenager, and just have fun. Date around and see what's out there. I'm sure by the time you're my age, you'll have found exactly what you want. :)

lonelyMPsoldier's photo
Wed 12/12/07 09:17 AM
I hope so, but sometimes its hard to find an older woman, i like older woman b/c you dont have to worry about all the drama, and other things that come with a lot of girls my age, and all of the older women that i talk to think i'm to young, or just dont give me a chance!

goddess_110's photo
Wed 12/12/07 09:23 AM
if u like her and accept her situation, good for you but just b careful and do not get hurt,

jvc534's photo
Wed 12/12/07 09:38 AM

I hope so, but sometimes its hard to find an older woman, i like older woman b/c you dont have to worry about all the drama, and other things that come with a lot of girls my age, and all of the older women that i talk to think i'm to young, or just dont give me a chance!


I feel ya on that one. However there are some girls our ages with brains. Just not too many. I guess the same could be said about guys our age too.

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 09:45 AM

ok... i'm 18 years old and still in high school, well i met someone on myspace, she is 26, divorced, and has 2 kids. Well, last night i met her and went to her house, we didnt do anything we just sat there and watched t.v. and talked a little, we werent even cuddling or ne thing. Well, i ended up sleeping in her bed, but nothing happened, i woke up a few times and i eventually just put my arm around her and went back to sleep. I think i was intimidated by her, b/c of the age difference, and the fact that she already has 2 kids. I've never really been with someone that much older than I, and i'm wondering if last night she was expecting something out of me, b/c i dont really know her that well, but yet, she was willing to drive 45 min to meet me, and let me stay at her house, and sleep in her bed. Should i be intimidated by the age? How should i treat her, should i treat her like i would any girl my age, or differently? I really like this girl..well.. woman, but for some reason i feel like i may have left her unsatisfied?
I don't think you were really that intimidated by her age, I think you were subconsciensly waiting for her to make the first move because you aren't as experienced as she is. And she wouldn't let you anywhere near those kids if she didn't like you, so treat her like a lady and if you don't know how to do that you're in trouble bro.

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 09:54 AM

I hope so, but sometimes its hard to find an older woman, i like older woman b/c you dont have to worry about all the drama, and other things that come with a lot of girls my age, and all of the older women that i talk to think i'm to young, or just dont give me a chance!


I guess it depends on how much older you're talking because, at my age, there is no way I'd date an 18 year old, even if he was the nicest guy in the world. It would just feel creepy to me.

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 10:06 AM

I hope so, but sometimes its hard to find an older woman, i like older woman b/c you dont have to worry about all the drama, and other things that come with a lot of girls my age, and all of the older women that i talk to think i'm to young, or just dont give me a chance!
That's a bit of a fallacy, kids, ex husbands, etc. etc.. that's not considered at least potential drama? have you ever heard of an Oedipus complex?

lonelyMPsoldier's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:06 PM


I hope so, but sometimes its hard to find an older woman, i like older woman b/c you dont have to worry about all the drama, and other things that come with a lot of girls my age, and all of the older women that i talk to think i'm to young, or just dont give me a chance!
That's a bit of a fallacy, kids, ex husbands, etc. etc.. that's not considered at least potential drama? have you ever heard of an Oedipus complex?


nope, i've never heard of an Oedipus Complex?, but i think i need to find an older woman that doesnt have any kids, and who hasnt been married before, i mean, a divorcee could be easier to work around than 2 kids at my age.

lonelyMPsoldier's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:07 PM


I hope so, but sometimes its hard to find an older woman, i like older woman b/c you dont have to worry about all the drama, and other things that come with a lot of girls my age, and all of the older women that i talk to think i'm to young, or just dont give me a chance!


I feel ya on that one. However there are some girls our ages with brains. Just not too many. I guess the same could be said about guys our age too.

True, but its rare to find that

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 09:24 PM

nope, i've never heard of an Oedipus Complex?

pay more attention in school lol
i swear they talk about that in like every english, mythology, and psychology class

lonelyMPsoldier's photo
Thu 12/13/07 06:10 AM
maybe if i think about it, but... not right off...

1 3 Next