Ibeaceltic1's response to the previous poster is too funny.
Thanks for making me laugh .

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stop drooling guys, user had been deactivated. ^^^^

no you haven't rosie

aww eric

...the fear of getting really really serious and make an appointment with one of us, but not being frivolous with All of the other ones?

...darn. i thought she was my "true love one and Only soulmate."

That is a fear women have - getting really really serious that she has to make an appointment with you? I don't think so! Dream on!

The lie that feminist propaganda has push for decades now. Feminine falls under the Yin side of the spectrum which is passive. There for she's weak. Women's upper bodies are made for childbirth so the lack of muscle mass makes it impossible to fight.

Of cause feminine isn't weak. She's like the snowfall ranging from a flerry to a complete whiteout that crushes everything under it's weight. Feminine strength comes from her resolve that fuels her determination to get things done. Her desire is to care for those she loves. Believing in the lie gets women to give this aspect up.

There's many ways for a woman to overcome her physical limits. Back when I was a kid we were still taught the old ways. Boys were taught flatfoot boxing which is the foundation for Jersey City street fighting and girls were taught by a mother, aunt or sent to self defence classes. The lie of violence is never the answer got people to allow such things to not be past along to children.

Yes, 99% of the time there's a way to avoid violence and most people won't ever need to fight. Learning to fight is better than not having the self confidence that you can protect yourself if needed.

She's AFRAID of YOU.

WHY? YOU didn't do anything wrong?

I think the first thing to remember is the fact that she is her own person and nobody (like you) sees reality like her.

Expectations are hard to drop.
We all have expectations we assign to every soul we meet.
Its our nature.

However, if you can remove ALL your expectations concerning another it frees you. It frees them.

Seeing someone as they present themselves has many merits.
It allows you to understand the person you are dealing with from their terms.
It allows you to make decisions based on understanding instead of what you expected.

Allowing another to 'be' themselves allows them to embrace themselves in reality.
Its actually pretty easy to do (I am doing it with my current GF).
Sometimes you get an unexpected result.
Its those results that cause you to form a bond with them or reject them.
It also allows you to determine if they are actually who they portray or if that person is not who they really are.
A brain-game.

Many "Failed" relationships are 'rooted' in a fail of expectations.
Someone did not 'prove' to be who you thought they were.

Was this a fault of them or a fault in your expectations of who YOU thought they should be?

I accept my GF as she is.
She accepts me as I am.
We both experience times where what we expect from them is not the reality of them.
Its a normal (tho flawed) human condition.
It is our own responsibility to accept or reject another.
If you can look at another and dismiss your expectations you gain a new consideration (wisdom) that allows you to make "Wise Choices".

Well said Tom

I think any if not all of us just want to be treated like equals... regardless of religion, politics, and other agenda we just want valued for our opinion... Not a woman but I do have my problems and I want people to just accept me for me... it's that simple. People waste time to bs with each other and argue... Makes no sense at all we just want to be heard... Not one of us being right or wrong. Just heard without judgement...

Women aren't fearful.
They just have the good sense to avoid a man who is seeking free sex
or who thinks he is entitled to have conversations with women who don't know him.

Zzzzawoweeeee! DoDo that puts a couple of men on here in the spotlight,

I've tried to BS... around this answer. They want someone who does not want them. Late in life they are sitting around crying wishing they had given such and such a chance cause he was everything she wanted in a man. And every man used her for personal pleasures not give a care about her at all. It took a life time to learn common sense. Those who are smart choose wisely... does not always work out according to plan, regardless she came into his life to teach him a lesson I guess you could say? And while he's soaking his wounds claiming he still does not care, lying to himself that he's a man and not obligated to feelings a true underclass bone-wit. He is soaked in a tub of his personal failures... She had indeed taught him his stupidity paid out for him perfectly...

The reason I've never been married? Same reason... ;)

There are those who "see" who they are meant for... and she still finds time to go on other priorities before meeting this special person. Live some Love some and be left to clean the dishes... It's everyone saying We do not want to believe in love anymore, it's too painful...

Everyone is not saying that. Just those who claim that the grapes are sour.

I think this went off topic a while back.

...of being lied to and missing their turn?