is there a women out there who dosen't judge
a man by his look's or what he has or don't have ?
after last night am saying
yes i got to meet someone off of JSH we talk for hour's
and now we r planeing date n# 2

Congrats on the second date. Yes.....there are real women out here that are honest, sincere, and looking for a genuine person to talk to. Thanks for giving me hope.

congrats ! and Good luck with it.. as for judging what a person has...For me...No, I could care less of material things..but there are some things i do care if they have or not...but all is within the person..Not what they have..

I agree. Its also nice to see a man who actually has the courage to meet a woman off here, good luck with the second date,

I think there's lots of men and women who don't care about the material things. I have plenty myself, don't need a guy who stockpiles. LMAO

I go off one thing in dating .......... CHEMISTRY/CONNECTION.

That's all that matters .. it's either there or it isn't. And it takes me a very short time to know if it exists between me and that person. Simple, easy, sweet.

Awwwww so true!!



congrats on the second date as well

Good luck on the #2 date!

When I was in my 20s looks were a heck of a lot more important than they are now (I'm in my 40s). Now looks don't matter to me. Also, I was totally not materialistic then, now unfortunately, it does matter to me what men have to a certain extent. Not in the sense that I need fancy cars, etc. - but I look at if they have health care - insurance - and will be able to have a nice retirement. I just think when your middle aged you don't want to hook up with some guy who rents or drives a beeter car and basically has nothing. You have to have some type of security for when you are unable to support yourself any longer. That's what I look at in a partner and also that's what I strive to accomplish for myself.

I just thought of something else and wanted to add that I don't need anyone to take care of me - and I don't want to have to finance someone elses retirement because of their lack of being able to get their own act together.

Congrats on the second date:)