Hey people,

Just wanted peoples thoughts on this, I myself am married (Canadian moved to Newcastle for marriage ha) and we are very open as my husband works a lot. I feel bad sometimes talking to other men but should I? x

no u should not feel guilty. how about going into a female to female relationship. wood he like an invite

Did you make an assumption about what she was looking for?

No, you should not feel guilty IF your husband is comfortable with it. If that is the case, it should be obvious from your profile. You should also share to what extent you are available to your new "friend" in one of your early conversations.

whats wrong having different taste.it doesnt make any change in the marital status.

I think it's fine

It's funny that only men answered this. I don't it's fine.

I meant to say, I don't think it's fine.

i don't think its fine , but i am not in to open relationships
so my vote don't really count

but if its open like ya say , then its open between the both of you
<shrug>
you are open to do what ever rules you 2 decided
only you can tell yourself what is wrong or right
what is chaos for the fly is normal for the spider

Why not? I don't see any problem on that....I am in the same situation, bu the way

If I had a Husband , I wouldn't need a date. My Husband would be my date.

However, different Stokes. For many.

"Should" doesn't really matter.
You do.
If you change your personality to the point you no longer feel something that is natural and normal to you, you're going to end up changing your relationship entirely.

If you keep doing something you feel bad about doing, that's going to be bad for your relationship too.

Kinda depends on what is actually motivating the "feel bad sometimes."

Why only sometimes? Do you feel bad more often than you used to?
Do you feel bad less often than you used to?

Are you going after these people because you feel you have to, so feel bad for the people you look to date knowing it's not going to lead anywhere? Feel bad for treating it like an open relationship because you feel you have to since you agreed to that label?
Is some part of you choosing people as a means of getting some kind of revenge on your partner for seeing someone else?

What are the bad feelings making you think or do.
That's what matters.
Not how you "should" feel.



I am assuming this is not just a thinly veiled billboarding thread to generate emails from people, you want to date or scam, to give you permission on how to feel.

Set the hook yet?