Hey I said I was high maintenance.

That's what I love about you.. You are honest with me...

Hey, you preach it...I'll keep yelling "Amen!"

You know they say you gotta (keep it new) in a relationship.

Relationships are very hard, and need a lot of work. So, ya gotta keep it NEW!!!.

Or, you can say things like, she just needs to like me for me and vs versa.

That's what I like to hear...

But you seem to keep pointing out what the man should be doing to "keep the woman in love" with him. Yes, relationships are work. My last one was for 9 years. However, she did plenty of little things for me that completely took me by surprise. I agree it is those little things that count but IndnPrncs hit the nail right on the head when she said it should come from the heart.

Some men dont believe they have to work at it......they think that if they are just "them" that is all they should do......

We all have to work at it man or woman. It's too easy to become complacent.. For some that works but I think for most it doesn't and then people begin to feel taken advantage of and that brings discontent....

Well said! The both relationships I had started out with innocent friendships. The first one, we were friends for 1.5 years, and were very close, even more so than some couples, except no sexual intimacy. We did everything for each other, and a lot of things together; walks, hikes, travel, sat and talked all night, etc. We wrote letters to each other everyday on the summer I was away. Then suddenly one day, we realized that we were in love with each other. The second relationship was similar, except it was 6 months of friendship before we became a couple.

Yes, that's the topic.

just been, romantic, really i dunno, i just went with the flow.

oh man I could go on and on and on and on about this topic lol... but trust me, ladies... you don't wanna know.

I say that because...well, let me present an analogy:

When little kids see a magic trick, they become amazed and start feeling "the magic." When they get a little older, they learn that it's all an organized system that produces something called an "illusion" and therefore lose that sense of wonderment and become bitter.

Do you really want to lose the magic?

That being said, there are many women out there who are mature enough to understand that it doesn't matter what a pickup artist does when she and him get into a successful, meaningful, loving relationship because the end result (the feelings they share) are most certainly REAL, regardless of how those feelings were created. However, most women still use "the ends does not justify the means" philosophy to frown upon the art of pickup, labeling it as "manipulation." These people just aren't ready for the truth and have some growing up to do...

BUT if you think you are ready, I posted a thread about it

Are you saying you don't have to do much of anything to make a woman fall in love with you, and in the end all that matters is that she loves you.

Here's another simple analogy;

See there's this seed, that somebody needs to plant, that somebody needs to water, that somebody needs to give sun light,
so that it will grow. The seed won't grow unless it is nurtured and taken care of to maturity.

If you're the type of man that feels you don't have to do much of anything to show a woman you love her, which will allow her to love you till the end, then you might not be ready.

I kidnap her and keep her in my dark basement until she says SHE LOVES ME!!!!!!!






















OK,,OK,,,IM JUST KIDDING.....

No one can MAKE anyone do ANYTHING!!
And LOVE, COULD NEVER BE FORCED ON ANOTHER.

So I think YOUR question is more with HOW to have ANOTHER "WANT" to be close enough to YOU to FEEL a CLOSER BOND?

Define LOVE. EVERYTHING!

To always place them before YOU. (In their thoughts)
To always show them YOU CARE.
To always HAVE TIME for them, even if YOU DON'T.
To always MAKE THEM "FEEL" your HEART.
To always have a SMILE for them.
To always be THEIR BEST FRIEND, and THEM YOURS!!!!!
Thats a few.......

my sense of humor is my best quality....if you can make a woman laugh... the deal is done....laughter is better than beauty

Well, there are some seeds that just fall to the ground, sprout their own roots to get water, stretch to get sunshine and the soil is so rich that nutrients aren't needed. Those plants grow up just as beautiful if not more so than the nurtured seed.

im just me
i dont really chop
but i show charisma and just be too sweet

By being me, being true to her and myself. Don't ever tell a women what you think they want to her. Tell her what you actually see in her and show her. If you can't see the beauty with in a women and actully show her to where she actually feels it by just looking into her eyes. Sorry guys but good luck

Well, there are some seeds that just fall to the ground, sprout their own roots to get water, stretch to get sunshine and the soil is so rich that nutrients aren't needed. Those plants grow up just as beautiful if not more so than the nurtured seed.


Otherwise known as letting the chips fall where they may.

Ok, if that works for you great, but just think how much better things could be for both of you, with a little effort.

Put 3 ice cubes into a highball glass. Pour in vodka. Fill balance of glass with orange juice, stir, and serve.. LOL works for me :) Just Kidding...