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Topic: First date night
Sarah's photo
Fri 12/28/18 08:25 AM
Does anyone else get nervous?

oldkid46's photo
Fri 12/28/18 09:00 AM

Nope because I don't go on a first date with any expectations. That way, you can be yourself and not put on a 'show'. If the first meet goes well and you both decide you wanna meet again, then the next date can be more relaxed as you've already shown the other person who you are by simply being yourself.
very good advice!!

Sarah's photo
Fri 12/28/18 09:50 AM
I use to serve him coffee where I worked last year. But I'm still kind of nervous. Thanks for the advice.

Poetrywriter's photo
Fri 12/28/18 10:07 AM
Nervous on a first date? That's a tuffie. I don't remember since my last first date was back when I double dated with Moses.laugh All I can say is I feel it is human nature to be nervous on a first date especially with someone you like. Just be yourself. If the other person likes you because of that then chances are there will be a second date. If there is a second date because you pretended to be someone else, then you will have to pretend to be someone else all the time afterwards.

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 12/28/18 10:44 AM
Nope I had many first dates, they were planned and I talked to the Men on the phone for hours and days at a time. When we finally met we had great times Fun together.

Sarah's photo
Fri 12/28/18 11:10 AM

Nope I had many first dates, they were planned and I talked to the Men on the phone for hours and days at a time. When we finally met we had great times Fun together.
we have talked on the phone for long periods of time. We seem to get along ok. I kind of remember him from work. I think it will go ok. I hope,

Riverspirit1111's photo
Fri 12/28/18 11:16 AM


Nope I had many first dates, they were planned and I talked to the Men on the phone for hours and days at a time. When we finally met we had great times Fun together.
we have talked on the phone for long periods of time. We seem to get along ok. I kind of remember him from work. I think it will go ok. I hope,


I think it's normal to be a little nervous, especially at your age. Even at my age, 56, I would be a tad bit nervous.

Just be yourself and let things flow naturally. Good luck to you and have fun! smile2

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 12/28/18 12:34 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 12/28/18 12:40 PM



Nope I had many first dates, they were planned and I talked to the Men on the phone for hours and days at a time. When we finally met we had great times Fun together.
we have talked on the phone for long periods of time. We seem to get along ok. I kind of remember him from work. I think it will go ok. I hope,


I think it's normal to be a little nervous, especially at your age. Even at my age, 56, I would be a tad bit nervous.

Just be yourself and let things flow naturally. Good luck to you and have fun! smile2



As I responded. I talked to my dates we had understanding before any date.

I was myself in conversation I I don't just Meetup with any Man.

I like them to know all about me Before they Travel to meet me.

It Works for Me on other Sites. I don't go with any Flows. :smile:

Age isn't a Factor in meeting and having a Great date. The Men are Older.

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no photo
Fri 12/28/18 12:56 PM
I like the Nervous excitement and anticipation of being attracted to someone .. embrace it and have a wonderful first date love love waving

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Fri 12/28/18 01:10 PM
To this day (I'm ancient now) I am terrified leading up to a first date or meet.

Best I can do, is (as suggested) keep my hopes and wishes at bay, bit that unfortunately doesn't reduce the panic level.

Good luck.

Sarah's photo
Fri 12/28/18 01:30 PM
Thanks everyone. I can't say I am not nervous but feeling better as the day goes by.

no photo
Fri 12/28/18 01:37 PM
sarah butterflies are good icy chills are bad.

take a deep breath change your outfit 22 times and go have funwinking

Sarah's photo
Fri 12/28/18 01:39 PM

sarah butterflies are good icy chills are bad.

take a deep breath change your outfit 22 times and go have funwinking
haha thanks.

peggy122's photo
Fri 12/28/18 04:20 PM
Even if you're nervous and spill something or trip, relax enough to laugh at yourself. He's likely to find your humor about it cute :heart: Good luck Sarah!

no photo
Fri 12/28/18 04:35 PM
Edited by greeneyes148 on Fri 12/28/18 04:36 PM

Does anyone else get nervous?
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Yes, I start sweating, my face turns red then I usually throw up... It does kill the mood at the restaurant.

I am working to fix this problem.

FeelYoung's photo
Fri 12/28/18 05:38 PM
Igor - I just checked your profile. very cool. if YOU are ANCIENT, then I must truly be a Dinosaur. !!

knyteryder 's photo
Fri 12/28/18 05:43 PM
no reason to be nervous if you've been talking a while. if you haven't well then it's just a matter of seeing if you click or not.

Rock's photo
Fri 12/28/18 07:07 PM
Nope.


no photo
Fri 12/28/18 07:40 PM
It 's normal to get neverous when someone is in first date.Most of people try new thing are excited, neverous even a bit afraid because they haven' t experienced before, don' t know what to do. When do second time, it would be better more.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Sat 12/29/18 02:55 AM
How was your date Sarah?

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