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I only would meet some one from the Internet as long as it's at a Mall or some where with lot's of people and big crowds etc, that way if it's turns out to be some one they aren't maybe a woman and it's a guy then I can have a better chance at running lol. Never know people lie to much now a days, not saying they all do but don't know.
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hi! hey u doing .it,s kosta i am looking for gorl frends.i am hundsome and athletic body i have.if u want to frend call me my phone is 0431 179 400 thks bye "For a good time U call me. Luv U long time." 
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Met her here and marrying her 
Nobody steps back anymore to assess their part in a divorce, people just seem to run along to the next mistake with the same baggage all over again. 
I agree. When your geting divorced you are suppose to be healing, not 'shoveing it under the mattress' so to speak What should be healing exactly? This has been a lengthy process and we're both completely over it. Not everybody has a 'moping period' they have to go through. Some of us live in reality and know that when it's over it's over. On the bright side we're still good friends lol. ok let's put it this way. In my state at most a divorce would take 6 months. I don't know what state you are in where it is made into a 'lenghty process'. But can't ya'll keep your pants on until it's finalized so that if the relationships you are in now develop into something serious / long term they will feel confident you wont (or she wont) cheat on them (depending on who ends up with the serious relationship..got it?) yeah reality is nice..I live there too bud...I divorced my ex (i.e. I left HIM and divorced HIM) but I had the morals (et al) to not go ****ing around until the divorce was final ((best x-mas present in the world I might add)). Oh and by the way, my divorce TOOK nearly seven months |
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I only would meet some one from the Internet as long as it's at a Mall or some where with lot's of people and big crowds etc, that way if it's turns out to be some one they aren't maybe a woman and it's a guy then I can have a better chance at running lol. Never know people lie to much now a days, not saying they all do but don't know. well that's how it's suppose to be.. |
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I only would meet some one from the Internet as long as it's at a Mall or some where with lot's of people and big crowds etc, that way if it's turns out to be some one they aren't maybe a woman and it's a guy then I can have a better chance at running lol. Never know people lie to much now a days, not saying they all do but don't know. You're more likely to get killed in the mall by a stranger than the person you are meeting from online |
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listen....he said "friends" and the act of "seeing" is done through the eyes. Anyhow being separated is being emotianally divorced while you wait for the paperwork to go through. They have a mutual agreement (which is the important part) to no longer be committed to eachother and to see other people. The government has a tendancy to take their sweetass time with the paperwork.
Dude how old are you? Look he maybe going through a divorce, but what where in this "rule book" does it say that you can't meet new people if the divorce isn't final yet? I believe he said "friends". You have no room to criticize. munch151: oh my god!  such a player!! 
What? No, not at all. I'm not hiding anything at all and I'm not a player. I'm just in the middle of a divorce and making friends. Actually all 3 of them are separated and seeing other people as well so it's all good. if your in the middle of a divorce (ie NOT divorced yet) you shouldn't be dating at all...your still married until the divorce is final.
first off I'm not a 'dude' 
second he didn't say 'friends' he said seeing girls from three different sites while still married (i.e. dating) and anyone who was brought up with any morals knows you don't do what they are doing. |
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it's not the 'government' that takes their "sweet ass time" it's bad lawyers.
I could do a poll around here probably 70% of the people here would agree that MOST OF THE TIME 'seeing', when said in such content..means dating. you HAVE to be seperated to get a divorce!! you can't get a divorce and still be living together!! 
listen....he said "friends" and the act of "seeing" is done through the eyes. Anyhow being separated is being emotianally divorced while you wait for the paperwork to go through. They have a mutual agreement (which is the important part) to no longer be committed to eachother and to see other people. The government has a tendancy to take their sweetass time with the paperwork. Dude how old are you? Look he maybe going through a divorce, but what where in this "rule book" does it say that you can't meet new people if the divorce isn't final yet? I believe he said "friends". You have no room to criticize. munch151: oh my god! such a player!!
What? No, not at all. I'm not hiding anything at all and I'm not a player. I'm just in the middle of a divorce and making friends. Actually all 3 of them are separated and seeing other people as well so it's all good. if your in the middle of a divorce (ie NOT divorced yet) you shouldn't be dating at all...your still married until the divorce is final.
first off I'm not a 'dude'
second he didn't say 'friends' he said seeing girls from three different sites while still married (i.e. dating) and anyone who was brought up with any morals knows you don't do what they are doing. |
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Met her here and marrying her
Nobody steps back anymore to assess their part in a divorce, people just seem to run along to the next mistake with the same baggage all over again.
I agree. When your geting divorced you are suppose to be healing, not 'shoveing it under the mattress' so to speak What should be healing exactly? This has been a lengthy process and we're both completely over it. Not everybody has a 'moping period' they have to go through. Some of us live in reality and know that when it's over it's over. On the bright side we're still good friends lol. ok let's put it this way. In my state at most a divorce would take 6 months. I don't know what state you are in where it is made into a 'lenghty process'. But can't ya'll keep your pants on until it's finalized so that if the relationships you are in now develop into something serious / long term they will feel confident you wont (or she wont) cheat on them (depending on who ends up with the serious relationship..got it?) yeah reality is nice..I live there too bud...I divorced my ex (i.e. I left HIM and divorced HIM) but I had the morals (et al) to not go ****ing around until the divorce was final ((best x-mas present in the world I might add)). Oh and by the way, my divorce TOOK nearly seven months Look, all I'm sayin is this: My wife and I are separated. We have absolutely no interest in ever getting back together when the divorce is final. I'm not involved in any 'relationships' because I don't want that right now. But even if I was it would be ok because I have not once lied to any of the girls I'm seeing nor will I lie to any I meet in the future. If everyone involved is ok with it then what is the problem? Oh yeah... and if someone was to step back and assess their part in a divorce what would it be? Inform me, please. I kinda thought it meant we were heading out and making new plans, not focusing on the stuff we're trying to get away from. And I'm not running into the same mistakes and bringing any 'baggage' with me. I'm completely over it lol, why can't you be? |
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Ok.. First things first.. I have met people and they are great and I would meet more.. And second.. Munch.. As long as you are happy then more power to ya.. Make new friends! No need to judge you without knowing you.. And to everyone else who is bagging on him for what he does.. Its really not up to you and we shouldn't be here just to judge anyone's morals.. If you don't like it then don't talk to him. Ugh!
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Ok.. First things first.. I have met people and they are great and I would meet more.. And second.. Munch.. As long as you are happy then more power to ya.. Make new friends! No need to judge you without knowing you.. And to everyone else who is bagging on him for what he does.. Its really not up to you and we shouldn't be here just to judge anyone's morals.. If you don't like it then don't talk to him. Ugh! You rock |
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Yes, if they were a non-smoker and we had things in common.
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of course. i met the guy i am currently dating on here...from the first time we met, it has been great for us. i am so glad i decided to meet him
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On pins and needles waiting to meet shutterguy in a few weeks!
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haha.. Thanks!
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Sorry Soul I am a smoker, Yes I would meet in public someone I "met' online. My divorce will be final in 6 weeks and I am no where ready for any kind of a relationship. E-mails and chats only for now.
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well said munch always be honest and open
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Ok.. First things first.. I have met people and they are great and I would meet more.. And second.. Munch.. As long as you are happy then more power to ya.. Make new friends! No need to judge you without knowing you.. And to everyone else who is bagging on him for what he does.. Its really not up to you and we shouldn't be here just to judge anyone's morals.. If you don't like it then don't talk to him. Ugh! I must agree on this one too. Munch says clearly he is not lying, cheating or deceiving anyone and if all are fine with it its thier business, no one elses. We all have our own styles. Some date/see multiple people others only see one person at a time (I'm a single person dater myself), but its all up to the individual. Munch isn;t lying, cheating or deceiving..and all involved is cool with it...best of luck and happy trails! 
Live YOUR life, not someone elses. be YOU..be honest and everything else will be OK!
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And back on topic, have met and made many good friends online. Only met one person from this site. No spark, but still pals. Not too many locals here. Did meet my current beau on another site.
Have to put my 2 cents in on the divorced/separated. In most states, you can date after separation is filed. What one person does may not be for you, but we are all grown ups here (or should be). Let everyone make their own decisions. Now back to our regularly scheduled programming.... |
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On pins and needles waiting to meet shutterguy in a few weeks! cant wait to meet my babe,,, worse then a kid waiting for christmas |
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Edited by
Sumthingdifferent
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Sat 12/08/07 08:23 PM
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And back on topic, have met and made many good friends online. Only met one person from this site. No spark, but still pals. Not too many locals here. Did meet my current beau on another site. Have to put my 2 cents in on the divorced/separated. In most states, you can date after separation is filed. What one person does may not be for you, but we are all grown ups here (or should be). Let everyone make their own decisions. Now back to our regularly scheduled programming.... Wait! Wait! Wait! one min. I refused to grow up..I'm 12, not even a teenager...that way in no state can I ever be covicted of an adult crime! 
That's my story and I'm stickin to it!!!
NOW back to the regularly scheduled programming!
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