i want you to know that i live in middle east, so our kind of dating differs from most of the world
im at medical school, at my 5th year(medical college is made up of 6 years in here), so i like a girl from my class, shes a very close friend of another one who has a crush on me, but i dont like her at all, so i dont really know how to approach the girl that i like(from my 5 years of experience with the girl ik that she likes me as well), the thing about dating in my country is that we do it secretly, first on social media and text messages then real dating which might come after a year(ik it sucks), another thing that disrupts me is that the girl that i like really likes to show off, like if i became close to her she will tell almost everyone in my class, which i dont really want, since ive got an ex among them which i dont want her to know because she still loves me.

so in summary i just want to get her message me without other girls in my class finding out about it.

im just here because im stuck and needed some help, will delete my account once i get some advice

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There is way too much subterfuge going on for an unlikely payoff. Either nut up or give up. Drama is best left in the theater.

So you wanna play the field and need pointers how to do it?

focus on your study ....leave romance till you have graduated

OP is gone.

If you're gonna bone multiple women,
make sure they aren't in near enough
proximity to each other, to compare notes.

I realize he is gone, but his OP didn't read to me like he was wanting to play the field or "bone" multiple women. I'm curious how did ya'll get that from his OP?

I lived in Kuwait. Many young men and women would go in groups to the mall, and meet there.

Of course, your situation may be different.