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Topic: Non-monogamy
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Fri 10/26/18 03:39 PM

It appears many people who don't even know what monogamy is are practicing it and the reason is because that's the only kind of relationship you see growing up usually.

If you've matured and educated yourself, you've realized what monogamy is and that most people practice it.

Monogamy is when you condition yourself and your partner to only having access to one another. All others are excluded.

Non-monogamy is anything that isn't that. It can include polygamy, polyamory, swinging, romantic anarchy, digamy or whatever else exists.

I am non-monogamous because love is unconditional and monogamy has condition, therefore it cannot be true love.

You and your monogamous partner can open your relationship up whenever you're ready to experience it.

Jealousy is not a part of love. It's a part of conditioning.

If you love someone, you'll be able to share them if it makes them happy.

It isn't easy to accept changes, but this kind of relationship is older than monogamy and it's still around today, mainly found in dense urban areas.



I am non-monogamous because love is unconditional and monogamy has condition,
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msharmony's photo
Fri 10/26/18 03:40 PM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 10/26/18 03:42 PM
Anything without conditions, is worthless.

imho.

there are conditions if one wants to be healthy physically.
there are conditions if one wants to be healthy intellectually.
there are conditions if one wants to be healthy emotionally.


love has many forms. any form that has no expectation is friendly love. You give what you want, you take what you want. Any love that is deeper than friendly love, compels us to WANT to do more and WANT to do what respects and stops being only about ourselves. It doesnt feel like a condition if it is what one WANTS to do.

Love should be a mutual interaction. Give no less than you wish to receive. if both partners can live up to that, there should be no issue and no complaint.

if monogamy feels like a condition, it may not be the right type of relationship for someone. However, when someone loves someone so much that they do not WANT to diminish or dilute it by sharing or being shared in that most intimate of manners, monogamy is just the choice both have made, and not a 'condition' at all.

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Fri 10/26/18 03:47 PM

Anything without conditions, is worthless.

imho.

there are conditions if one wants to be healthy physically.
there are conditions if one wants to be healthy intellectually.
there are conditions if one wants to be healthy emotionally.


love has many forms. any form that has no expectation is friendly love. You give what you want, you take what you want. Any love that is deeper than friendly love, compels us to WANT to do more and WANT to do what respects and stops being only about ourselves. It doesnt feel like a condition if it is what one WANTS to do.

Love should be a mutual interaction. Give no less than you wish to receive. if both partners can live up to that, there should be no issue and no complaint.

if monogamy feels like a condition, it may not be the right type of relationship for someone. However, when someone loves someone so much that they do not WANT to diminish or dilute it by sharing or being shared in that most intimate of manners, monogamy is just the choice both have made, and not a 'condition' at all.



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Fri 10/26/18 05:02 PM
I'm going to quote Thomas Edison For one word a man is to be wise. And for one word he is often deemed to be foolish. We ought to be careful, Indeed, What words we use.

Rock's photo
Fri 10/26/18 05:06 PM

5 Reasons Monogamy Cannot Be True Love

1) Love is sharing, unlike monogamy.
2) Love is open-minded, unlike monogamy.
3) Love is natural, unlike monogamy.
4) Love is never selfish, unlike monogamy.
5) Love is never possessive, unlike monogamy.


Oh! You're a cuckold.

There was a female profile here,
searching for one of those a few
months ago.


Go get her, Tiger! :thumbsup:


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Fri 10/26/18 10:54 PM
Monogamy is a personal choice and should be accepted and respected as such. Those who wish to practice non-monogamy should also be accepted and respected for their views.

Lpdon's photo
Sat 10/27/18 03:44 AM


5 Reasons Monogamy Cannot Be True Love

1) Love is sharing, unlike monogamy.
2) Love is open-minded, unlike monogamy.
3) Love is natural, unlike monogamy.
4) Love is never selfish, unlike monogamy.
5) Love is never possessive, unlike monogamy.


Oh! You're a cuckold.

There was a female profile here,
searching for one of those a few
months ago.


Go get her, Tiger! :thumbsup:




Rock, you crack me up! Wait, how do you know so much about what a cuckold is? Wait, don't answer, I don't wanna know! laugh

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 10/27/18 03:55 AM

Rock, you crack me up! Wait, how do you know so much about what a cuckold is? Wait, don't answer, I don't wanna know! laugh


slaphead I thought Rock said . . .


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