LOL, with my finger tips...

...Too sexy for my pants...
...like death warmed over...
...like I'm stuck in an insane asylum...
...like a manly, man...

I don't feel like a "Good Man" but I am a good man, at least that's what I'm told.

I think its because I treat other people with respect.

So, technically, I am a Real Good Man.

to me a REAL Man, aside from all this socially constructed Gender stuff, is a HUMAN BEING who has a penis and testicles with no ovaries.

now, a DESIRABLE man, for me, is someone with balance. Balance is tricky to describe, but basically it is someone who:

is in spiritual, intellectual, and physical good health.

Someone with a character that is balanced between humble and confident.

Someone who can adapt and who pays attention to and has empathy for what others need or are going through, instead of just focusing on themselves.

Someone who believes Jesus died for our sins and tries to be a decent person by not only Mans laws but spiritual or biblical guidance.

someone who does not lift themself up by stepping on or putting others down.

someone who tries to have a positive and hopeful outlook on life.

I prefer someone who has the capacity for witty banter or for serious focus, depending upon what the situation calls for.

all these make a man desirable, in my eyes at least.