Topic: about filling out the profile?
Stu's photo
Thu 12/20/18 06:47 PM

I prefer a filled profile. If you're contacting me with a pic only, no pic, incomplete profile or any combination of those options I won't take you seriously or reply.


This is just my take on the subject.


Yep, unless they are in the forum for a while..

Fritzo27's photo
Thu 12/20/18 06:49 PM
I don't fill out my profile. If they want to know something about me, they can make the effort to message me and ask. It's dating, not a job interview. I don't need to provide a CV.

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 12/20/18 07:46 PM
Men don't read. Profiles!

Fritzo27's photo
Fri 12/21/18 01:19 AM

Men don't read. Profiles!


Oh yes we do. They're just usually very bland and don't really give us anything to open up a conversation with. Besides when we message a woman regarding something on her profile, she automatically assumes that we're only pretending to share that interest with her to get down her underwear.

Mentioning something on her profile almost never results in a response.

Rock's photo
Fri 12/21/18 02:18 AM

Men don't read. Profiles!


I read profiles.
Call it a hobby.

Gives me some idea of what i might be dealing
with.
laugh


no photo
Fri 12/21/18 05:16 AM

Men don't read. Profiles!


*Buzzer* That is incorrect. (^^^^up there^^^^)
Men from the forums do read profiles.

Just saying.

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 12/21/18 11:51 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 12/21/18 11:55 AM


Men don't read. Profiles!


*Buzzer* That is incorrect. (^^^^up there^^^^)
Men from the forums do read profiles.

Just saying.



Maybe some men from the Forums do read profiles.

However, there are dozens of men on Mingle2 that come and go .

They do not read Profiles. I have had many contact me. No, they were not Scammers.

They no Nothing of these Forums.



Fritzo27's photo
Fri 12/21/18 01:03 PM



Men don't read. Profiles!


*Buzzer* That is incorrect. (^^^^up there^^^^)
Men from the forums do read profiles.

Just saying.



Maybe some men from the Forums do read profiles.

However, there are dozens of men on Mingle2 that come and go .

They do not read Profiles. I have had many contact me. No, they were not Scammers.

They no Nothing of these Forums.





Men who don't read the profiles but have game will achieve hook ups.
Men who do read the profiles and have no game, will be instantly dismissed/ignored.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Fri 12/21/18 01:20 PM




Men don't read. Profiles!


*Buzzer* That is incorrect. (^^^^up there^^^^)
Men from the forums do read profiles.

Just saying.



Maybe some men from the Forums do read profiles.

However, there are dozens of men on Mingle2 that come and go .

They do not read Profiles. I have had many contact me. No, they were not Scammers.

They no Nothing of these Forums.





Men who don't read the profiles but have game will achieve hook ups.
Men who do read the profiles and have no game, will be instantly dismissed/ignored.


Meh.
Maybe that's what the younger set wants..

Me, I have no interest in a man who plays games/ has "game"...
Be real, be yourself...otherwise, I wouldn't be interested.


Fritzo27's photo
Fri 12/21/18 01:44 PM





Men don't read. Profiles!


*Buzzer* That is incorrect. (^^^^up there^^^^)
Men from the forums do read profiles.

Just saying.



Maybe some men from the Forums do read profiles.

However, there are dozens of men on Mingle2 that come and go .

They do not read Profiles. I have had many contact me. No, they were not Scammers.

They no Nothing of these Forums.





Men who don't read the profiles but have game will achieve hook ups.
Men who do read the profiles and have no game, will be instantly dismissed/ignored.


Meh.
Maybe that's what the younger set wants..

Me, I have no interest in a man who plays games/ has "game"...
Be real, be yourself...otherwise, I wouldn't be interested.




Yuh huh......

FeelYoung's photo
Mon 12/24/18 04:20 PM
Well, personally, I have a very interesting profile. But no one reads it. It tells you right upfront who i am going to delete. So i spend a LOT of time deleting immature boys from foreign countries and old men from foreign States. !

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 12/24/18 04:28 PM

Men who don't read the profiles but have game will achieve hook ups.
Men who do read the profiles and have no game, will be instantly dismissed/ignored.





no photo
Mon 12/24/18 06:30 PM
Mingle has always been a little odd about that. Before Match bought out POF, you couldn't have a profile on POF if you didn't fill it out. I forget now how many characters it had to be. It made it so people had to say a few words about themselves. And it had to make sense. Since Match took it over. 2 and 3-word profiles usually get kicked out. Especially if it has a fake picture.

Which, at the same time, cut down on the amount of scammer, spammer and bot traffic. Now, on POF, you can specify how many characters a person has to type before the message will send. That helps a lot too. It makes it easier to avoid those spammer/scammer types of messages because of the algorithm. It will kick out the profile and message before you even have a chance to see it.

If Mingle would adopt something like this, many more profiles would be filled out by real people. Since they don't, sometimes it's hard to figure out who is real and who isn't. Usually, spammer/scammer types are not going to write very much. But when the site requires X amount of characters in your profile and messages you send, many of those types will leave for easier pickings.

They don't want to have to type 50 to 150 characters on the 20 or 30 profiles they started. If they try to copy&paste the same text on every profile, that will get them caught and kicked out.

Bob's photo
Mon 12/24/18 07:22 PM
Reading the profiles is fun. See how many of them are exact copies. See how many the profile and persons names don't match. See how many personal descriptions don't match the photo. It's a quick signal as to who you're really dealing with. Enjoy.

FeelYoung's photo
Mon 12/24/18 07:37 PM
Bob - i agree with you. Sheesh, been a long time since I agreed with anyone
Merry Christmas and/or Holidays everyone.

Bob's photo
Mon 12/24/18 07:47 PM
Thanks Animal Lover, new here but fast learner. Is there a place where we can get donations to buy some of these women shirts & bras? It's Xmas, we should donate something to help these poor girls out! LOL. Hope you're having a great Christmas and a Happy New Year!

chris's photo
Mon 12/24/18 07:58 PM

People that do not fill out profiles are horrible human beings. They have no place here. explode

I agree they have no place here, but I would not call them horrible human beings, for most are just an internet construct.

FeelYoung's photo
Mon 12/24/18 08:22 PM
hey Chris, good profile. how come you have to live in Texas instead of Nebraska?
hmmmmmmm. oh well, that's the way things go. Good Luck in finding a really good match.

Bob's photo
Mon 12/24/18 08:22 PM
So they're horrible bots!?! LOL

no photo
Tue 12/25/18 07:57 AM
People who do not properly fill out their profile are evil and should be shunned. explode