Nada. Zip. Zilch.


Brokea88es.

that day is my birthday! LOL

Haven't had a meet yet. Have 2 planned for the Spring or early Summer since they are some distance away but I would not call them dates. Just a meet with an online friend. Want to add another to that list. We'll see.

You may count me in ..LOL

Yeah but tessa, my car would sink coming to see you...

fly your car then

Hi

i would like to dating white men and I would like serious relationship be serious I like real person

The one that isn't a date.

I'd rather spend time living life and sharing an afternoon or evening with her than go on a 'date'.
Too much posturing and formalities.
I'm spontaneous and imaginative.
Not into playing games to show someone how fake I can be.
How can you judge someones character if they are on guard all the time?
Be natural, go do something you both wanna do and stop worrying about how it looks to others.
If'n ya ain't natural, I don't wanna know ya.

Best first meet ever????.....Meeting her at Chuck E' Cheese and the both of us acting like kids. Haha! We even had the kids scared.

Met in 96 online, before there was much of an internet, dated across two states for a few months, had a blast, she moved here, we married in 99, divorced in 2011.. lost everything for the second time.. and still have nothing. But we're still family and when I visit, her, her husband, our friends and I have one helluva time.

The places I have found to date are usually areas like a plaza because they have many different places to eat all within the same area and you can get to know the person. So most new dates start off more as a meet and greet if anything. If things go well , then later movie theaters and other places. I have met a few women on this site and even made a few good friends.

NOT a date from here (haven't had one yet)..and not a "best"...but, funny nonetheless..
(P.S..For the mods..there's no way this guy will see this...he is dead, so I heard)

Anyway, this guy lived about 30 minutes north of a place I went to regularly for a bluegrass jam....and I lived about 30 minutes south (I have since moved to a whole other area)..so, I figured it was a good halfway point, since i was going to be there anyway, and..as it was close to the interestate...if he didn't want to go to the jam, or the date went bad...he could easily hop on that and head home.

So, I mentiond there was this sushi place there I wanted to try..and I told him about it...he said OK (this is important)...and we agreed to meet there for dinner..

I get there, he's already there...we walk in...are seated...he is looking uncomfortable..
He turns the menu over and over...looking at all pages...keeps looking..
I ask "is there something wrong?"
(I pay my own way on a first date...and he knew this, so,..he wasn't concerned about the money)

He says "I don't eat seafood..."

blink blink

I asked him if he was alleregic, as this is a serious thing....
He says no, he just doesn't like seafood.

blink blink again..

I asked him WHY he hadn't said anything when I mentioned wanting to go to this place...as this is a college town, and there were probably 40 other places we could have gone...

He said "I didn't think I had a choice.."

Duuuude....

I am not that demanding, I didn't care where we went, I just mentioned I wanted to go here because I heard it was good..
Hell, had he said during our phone chat he didn't eat seafood...we could have gone to Ryan's...or Olive garden, fer chirists sake..

I said "Do you want to leave then?"
He said no, we were already seated...blah blah..

Pfft..
I don't know what he ate...didn't care...I quit engaging with him after that..
Oh, I was polite, but not chatty...
*I* enjoyed MY dinner...
We paid our checks, and went to ourrespective cars...

We never chatted again.
(I did later run across some people that knew him..anfd that's how i know he died from something a while back)

I am not a bad person...
1. HE should have said beforehand he didn't eat seafood.
As I said...I went there 2-3 times a month..I could have tried this place next time I was there...no biggie..

2. When I had asked do you want to go somewhere else...he should have been an adult and said yes, if you don't mind..
No wait person had been to our table, we had JUST been seated...so it really wouldn't have been a problem...

3. What grown adult doesn't know what sushi is?
(assuming he didn't know, and just agreed because he had no idea)
I really didn't think I needed to *ask* a 50 year old man who lives near a big city if he knew what sushi was...

I'm going with September 17 2019

One where she doesn't leave in the middle of it..

A meet and greet is not a date! I usually do a meet and greet later afternoon someplace for a beer or coffee. Meet there in a public setting with others around. If all goes good, it can become dinner; if it isn't so good, it is time to get home or happy hour is over.

A real date can follow the meet and greet if it is mutually enjoyable. The magnitude of the date is based on what both enjoy and would like to do.