What do you think about an 80 per cent compatibility? Is it enough? Or not? How do you find all the things you want and desire in one person? Is it even possible? Give me your thoughts.

I don't know of any magic number.
I'm positive no relationship is 100% compatible.

The acceptable compatibility is what the two desire for themselves.

It also depends on each person's definition of "compatible".

Nah.
I can't think of a woman who won't yammer
nonstop about that other 20%.

Meh... Maybe if she's a mute, 80% could work.

I think your approach it wrong.
Standards are for yourself, not someone else, they have their own.
You should want and desire changes within yourself, not make
someone else conform to you..or what you want them to be.

I met my ex wife in high school. We broke up two times during the six years we dated. The day we got married, I felt that she and I were absolutely meant to be. We had our differences, but we figured things out. That's what you do when you are in love....you figure it out...both of you do.

I dont think any two people with a brain can possibly agree on EVERY thing under the sun, but the ability to respect those differences determines compatability as much if not more than the ability to mirror each other and partner with someone that just constantly pats you on your back and does not ADD anything to your life or your knowledge.

That being said, I think compatibility is hard to measure by percentage, but those who can base expectations of what they want on expectations of what they will be willing to give have greater ability to weather the storms and build a long lasting commitment.