Topic: ¿Who will go the distance?
CaptainSpaz's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:42 PM
Surely some of you must have thought of it. ¿What if you meet someone on here that lives at a great distance? Flying out to visit them is one thing but it's another thing to pick up your whole life to spend it with that person. Some of us have issues or commitments, whether it's family, medical, school, work, etc. because of it some of us are not as inclined to move our whole lives.

So...

¿Who out there is willing AND able to make such a move for someone whom you may feel is the love of your life?

singingmyheartout's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:47 PM
Edited by singingmyheartout on Wed 12/05/07 07:48 PM

Surely some of you must have thought of it. ¿What if you meet someone on here that lives at a great distance? Flying out to visit them is one thing but it's another thing to pick up your whole life to spend it with that person. Some of us have issues or commitments, whether it's family, medical, school, work, etc. because of it some of us are not as inclined to move our whole lives.

So...

¿Who out there is willing AND able to make such a move for someone whom you may feel is the love of your life?


Welcome to my life... in process of relocating from Illinois to Arizona... and then probably Cali depending on his orders...
It was a huge decision... to relocate. I have to go through the courts here in IL to get permission to move with my kids (dad is not involved)... and I was born and raised here, so I'm going into a whole new environment. All-in-all... I think the change will be good. It will take some adjusting... but I'd rather start a new life with him rather than live this one I have currently without him. He has 2 more years of active duty (Navy)... so he can't come here... sure there's a lot of sacrifice involved on my part, for now... but the end result will be entirely worth it.flowerforyou

wmyers4u's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:48 PM
not able, I am here take it or leave it.

CaptainSpaz's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:50 PM


Surely some of you must have thought of it. ¿What if you meet someone on here that lives at a great distance? Flying out to visit them is one thing but it's another thing to pick up your whole life to spend it with that person. Some of us have issues or commitments, whether it's family, medical, school, work, etc. because of it some of us are not as inclined to move our whole lives.

So...

¿Who out there is willing AND able to make such a move for someone whom you may feel is the love of your life?


Welcome to my life... in process of relocating from Illinois to Arizona... and then probably Cali depending on his orders...
It was a huge decision... to relocate. I have to go through the courts here in IL to get permission to move with my kids (dad is not involved)... and I was born and raised here, so I'm going into a whole new environment. All-in-all... I think the change will be good. It will take some adjusting... but I'd rather start a new life with him rather than live this one I have currently without him. He has 2 more years of active duty (Navy)... so he can't come here... sure there's a lot of sacrifice involved on my part, for now... but the end result will be entirely worth it.flowerforyou


That's pretty much why I brought this up. I'm military as well so I can't just up and leave where ever or when ever. If I meet someone on here who lives at a distance she may have to be the one to make such a decision with her life.

daleray1606's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:54 PM
Hey Capt,

I met my wife on here. She flew in to WA and we got married in Portland OR. Then she flew back to MI on Sunday. She is going to be moving here in the summer b/c of our boys.. I call them our b/c I love them too. We both thought it would be best for them to come during the summer...
Love allows us the courage to do things we may never have had the courage to try before....

IMHO

singingmyheartout's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:56 PM
I'll admit, at first, I wasn't willing to move. My roots and family and support system are all here in Illinois.

BUT the more I got to know him, the more I knew there was nowhere else on earth that I'd belong.

We are getting married in March.
It will be hard to leave all of this behind. But he is worth it... and I adore his family (they are in Arizona)....

I know I am making the right choice... even though I know there will be adjustments and learning to do... my fiance and I know it will not always be sunshine and rainbows... but we've gone through hell and back together... we can survive anything.

pashen37's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:56 PM
I would relocate for love..if i had too becuz i canflowerforyou

AlohaTEX's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:56 PM
well...i got out of a 6year relationship because of this. the guy i was dating wanted me to move his home GERMANY to start a new life. he pushed me to choose him over my family.

i have no problem with starting a new life somewhere, BUT...making me CHOOSE...forget it! i think that as long as you both agree and come to terms with things...take a chance and make it happen...just don't force it on eachother because you might regret it in the end!

HazzMatt's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:58 PM
YUps, in fact I'm moving to Bedford, Texas right now

daleray1606's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:59 PM

well...i got out of a 6year relationship because of this. the guy i was dating wanted me to move his home GERMANY to start a new life. he pushed me to choose him over my family.

i have no problem with starting a new life somewhere, BUT...making me CHOOSE...forget it! i think that as long as you both agree and come to terms with things...take a chance and make it happen...just don't force it on eachother because you might regret it in the end!


I have a question... Didn't ya'll discuss this before getting really serious? As for Forcing it upon another I agree.. Hence communication is indeed the key..

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:00 PM
if i had tha financeembarassed
id move to where they are
find a job down there and settle being with them
and there are so many sexy broads i been talkin to alot on this
do actually do this lol

American women!!!!!!
love love love

singingmyheartout's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:01 PM

if i had tha financeembarassed
id move to where they are
find a job down there and settle being with them
and there are so many sexy broads i been talkin to alot on this
do actually do this lol

American women!!!!!!
love love love


Just some advice: Most Women don't find it attractive to be called a broad...flowerforyou

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:02 PM
sure id miss family and all
but id start my own instead and live a new life
:heart:

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:02 PM


if i had tha financeembarassed
id move to where they are
find a job down there and settle being with them
and there are so many sexy broads i been talkin to alot on this
do actually do this lol

American women!!!!!!
love love love


Just some advice: Most Women don't find it attractive to be called a broad...flowerforyou


i know
but sometimes i say such thing
laugh

mach25's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:03 PM


if i had tha financeembarassed
id move to where they are
find a job down there and settle being with them
and there are so many sexy broads i been talkin to alot on this
do actually do this lol

American women!!!!!!
love love love


Just some advice: Most Women don't find it attractive to be called a broad...flowerforyou

you tell him broad..oops i mean lady! lmao j/klaugh devil

ArtGurl's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:03 PM
he moves, I move ... we both move ... it's just semantics ... home is wherever WE are ...

Yeah ... I would move ...

:heart:


LAMom's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:05 PM
Awwwwwwwwwwww (((( Sherrie )))) took the words right out of my mouth,,, :heart: flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:08 PM
Love has no limits

daleray1606's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:11 PM

he moves, I move ... we both move ... it's just semantics ... home is wherever WE are ...

Yeah ... I would move ...

:heart:




Way to go Artgurl..... You always make me smile...

I miss you my friend

CaptainSpaz's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:13 PM
I wish I can find a someone that awesome. It's hard enough just to find a lady that will message or call me when she says.
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