open the door and take a long walk before u commit.....get yourself a dog and walk in the park.

I gotta agree with her. I'm an optimist by nature, but I get the jist from what you said that her ex was somewhat abusive, and women who are hung up on an abusive ex tend to break the hearts of the nice guys.

I may be too young to give you this advice, but I see certain trends very clearly, and that tends to be one of them.

Just go slow, be at ease with your past before you get into anything too serious.

Stay after her because I'm gone tell you like this here...READY? Okay number one you would not normally find someone who will be honset with you like the way she is doing it. So respect her to the fullest...okay
two...give her space because if she is telling you that she doesn't think that she is ready for a relationship then give her time to see okay he is not pressuring me so I guess he is okay...
three...DONT EVER LET A PERSON KNKOW THAT YOU ARE HEAD OVER HEELS FOR THEM THAN IF THEY DONT REALLY WANT YOU THEY WILL ACT LIKE IT TO WALK OVER YOU WITH THEM...I AM AN EXPERT AT THESE THINGS. I WANT YOU TO STOP CALLING HER AND LET HER CALL YOU...OKAY SAY YOU CALL HER THREE TIMES A DAY RIGHT? OKAY KNOCK IT DOWN WITH ONCE A DAY AND TWICE ON SUNDAY IF SHE WANTS YOU THE FIRST TWO THINGS SHE WILL SAY ARE
1. ARE YOU BUSY?
2.WHY HAVEN'T YOU BEEN CALLING ME
THEN IT GOES FROM THAT TO
3. DID I DO SOMETHING TO MAKE YOU MAD
4. DO YOU WANT TO STILL HANG OUT THIS WEEKEND
NOW IF SHE ASKS YOU ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS I WANT YOU TO PAY CLOSE ATTENTION:
1 SHE IS CONCERNED WHICH MEAN TWO THINGS YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO HER
2 SHE WANTS YOU TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE
3 YOU ARE THE ONE SHE WANTS TO BE WITH BUT SHE WANTS TO FIX HERSELF BEFORE SHE SETTLES DOWN WITH YOU

GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATS ON YOUR D.A.D (DATING AFTER DIVORCE)

Agreed here, let the smoke clear and after it clears decide

Actually I dont call her every day multiple times.. I'll call her once and leave a message and that way the ball is in her court. I'm not big on pressure because I know that I dont really like a girl calling me multiple times a day. We will hang out maybe twice a week depending on if my job or her job lets us. also to answer your other questions, She tells me to call her anytime of the day and she will answer if she is able too, also Tuesday night.. We hung out had a great time at Dannys over in the dot, then went and hung out at her place till 4 in the morning, then she called me about 4:30 to make sure I made it home alright.. Also she has asked me "where have you been all my life" several times, so I dont know maybe that is a good sign too.. I do have prolly 5 other girls that i'm friends with that I could get with, but this girl that i'm talking about in this blog is the best by far...

I would ask her if she could talk to her ex and see if there is a chance for a 3-some

u r soooo bad

KB, I know exactly about what you are going thru. I am majorly in love with my baby's daddy and tryed going out on dates and moving on but he has my heart so it isn't possible for me to move on.. We are back together now. So I come in here for the friendships..

well in my opinion...she was in a relationship for 5 years...so maybe she is just needing her freedom for a while....i don't think you should put your life on hold for her. if you want to date other people then do so. and she should do the same.....let her play for a while . she will get tired of it then be ready to settle down.

have fun with her... if its meant to be, it will be... if not, you found a great friend anyway. take things slow and try not to worry too much about what may or may not happen (those words come from someone special to me)

Date other girls....play the field....have fun...whats the rush?

Should I stay or should I go... thats a great song.

think of the saying, if you let something go and it comes back it was yours, if it doesn't it never was,