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| Topic: If you are both into each other but one of the two is attach | |
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Time for the list 
He’s just not that into you if he is not asking you out He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you He’s just not that into you if he’s not dating you He’s just not that into you if he is not having sex with you He’s just not that into you if he is having sex with someone else He’s just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he’s drunk He’s just not that into you if he doesn’t want to marry you He’s just not that into you if he is breaking up with you He’s just not that into you if he has disappeared on you He’s just not that into you if he is married (and other insane reasons) He’s just not that into you if he’s a selfish Jerk, bully or real big freak He’s Just Not That Into You - Greg Behrendt. . I like lists, I like this list. TY |
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Time for the list
He’s just not that into you if he is not asking you out He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you He’s just not that into you, if he’s not dating you He’s just not that into you, if he is not having sex with you He’s just not that into you if he is having sex with someone else He’s just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he’s drunk He’s just not that into you if he doesn’t want to marry you He’s just not that into you if he is breaking up with you He’s just not that into you if he has disappeared on you He’s just not that into you if he is married (and other insane reasons) He’s just not that into you if he’s a selfish Jerk, bully or real big freak He’s Just Not That Into You - Greg Behrendt. . Thank you Galaxy... I like this and really need to paste it on my wall! |
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It would depend on if the person that is attached has integrity or not. If they have integrity, they will stop and end anything they have going with someone before they start something new with someone else. If they don't have integrity, well they should still end what they have going with anyone before starting a new fling. What if the guy who is attached cheats on his girlfriend with this other girl because his girlfriend doesn’t give him enough attention and is lacking in efforts when it comes to her relationship? Can the other girl go for this guy without having to feel guilty in this hypothetical situation. The other girl is willing to give him much more attention,... Can they proceed if they keep it a secret from the guy’s current girlfriend who is coming short in her relationship? Integrity still applies... If he wants something that he is not getting and she will not change, he needs to break it off before starting anything. And if you are the one looking at him thinking it might be okay to start something, well what will stop him from cheating on you at some point??? As Stu says, "Ya might want to hold the boat off, hypothetically...  "
Perfect response . By starting a new relationship without breaking off the old relationship, you are communicating to each other that not only is it acceptable for both of you to cheat on your present partners , but its also acceptable for both of you to cheat on each other with future lovers |
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Find a single man. Two is a couple and a third person is one too many!
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It would depend on if the person that is attached has integrity or not. If they have integrity, they will stop and end anything they have going with someone before they start something new with someone else. If they don't have integrity, well they should still end what they have going with anyone before starting a new fling. What if the guy who is attached cheats on his girlfriend with this other girl because his girlfriend doesn’t give him enough attention and is lacking in efforts when it comes to her relationship? Can the other girl go for this guy without having to feel guilty in this hypothetical situation. The other girl is willing to give him much more attention,... Can they proceed if they keep it a secret from the guy’s current girlfriend who is coming short in her relationship? Integrity still applies... If he wants something that he is not getting and she will not change, he needs to break it off before starting anything. And if you are the one looking at him thinking it might be okay to start something, well what will stop him from cheating on you at some point??? As Stu says, "Ya might want to hold the boat off, hypothetically... "
Perfect response . By starting a new relationship without breaking off the old relationship, you are communicating to each other that not only is it acceptable for both of you to cheat on your present partners , but its also acceptable for both of you to cheat on each other with future lovers 
What I find amazing is that there are people that want and expect that type of behavior in a relationship. 
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It would depend on if the person that is attached has integrity or not. If they have integrity, they will stop and end anything they have going with someone before they start something new with someone else. If they don't have integrity, well they should still end what they have going with anyone before starting a new fling. What if the guy who is attached cheats on his girlfriend with this other girl because his girlfriend doesn’t give him enough attention and is lacking in efforts when it comes to her relationship? Can the other girl go for this guy without having to feel guilty in this hypothetical situation. The other girl is willing to give him much more attention,... Can they proceed if they keep it a secret from the guy’s current girlfriend who is coming short in her relationship? Integrity still applies... If he wants something that he is not getting and she will not change, he needs to break it off before starting anything. And if you are the one looking at him thinking it might be okay to start something, well what will stop him from cheating on you at some point??? As Stu says, "Ya might want to hold the boat off, hypothetically... "
Perfect response . By starting a new relationship without breaking off the old relationship, you are communicating to each other that not only is it acceptable for both of you to cheat on your present partners , but its also acceptable for both of you to cheat on each other with future lovers
What I find amazing is that there are people that want and expect that type of behavior in a relationship.
So true Tom... A guy I was talking to the other day was rating himself as an honorable husband because he cheated on his wife in a covert respectful manner , and never abandoned her or the marriage. Hands off ladies... He's all mine . 
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i was told we are single till married
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If you met a person in the neighbourhood where you live ( or somewhere else ) , both of you are into each other but one of the two is attached to someone else, would it be right to proceed or should you hold the boat off? This is a hypothetical discussion / hypothetical question. It would be foolish for you to proceed. |
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The ethics i value would never allow me to be involved with another woman's man. I have no interest in such men .. they are weak
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The ethics i value would never allow me to be involved with another woman's man. I have no interest in such men .. they are weak
You are SOOOO right. 
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<<<< does NOT share well
nuff said |
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Straight forward. That guy has to make a choice. Either you, or his girlfriend. Having matters hanging in the balance only leads to false hopes, and eventually disaster. Truth Larsi  I like it...
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Back when I was married my now X treated me like shyt. I put up with it for 6 years. There were women left and right of me that knew what kind of life I had with my X. I was always getting offers from these women. I could have very easily cheated on my wife. But I didn't.
I tried for 6 years to make it work. While she refused to put in any work or effort. When you are with someone like this the relationship is bound to fail. But even though it's bound to fail, that doesn't make cheating right. If you put in the work and the other refuses, end it. Give yourself some breathing time. Then move on to the next one. No matter how bad a relationship is, there is never an excuse for cheating. End it. Breath for yourself for a while. Then move forward. |
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It would depend on if the person that is attached has integrity or not. If they have integrity, they will stop and end anything they have going with someone before they start something new with someone else. If they don't have integrity, well they should still end what they have going with anyone before starting a new fling. What if the guy who is attached cheats on his girlfriend with this other girl because his girlfriend doesn’t give him enough attention and is lacking in efforts when it comes to her relationship? Can the other girl go for this guy without having to feel guilty in this hypothetical situation. The other girl is willing to give him much more attention,... Can they proceed if they keep it a secret from the guy’s current girlfriend who is coming short in her relationship? Find your own fish
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I think any self respecting man or woman would wait
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If a woman and i are into each other,
and she's still attached to someone else? I happily cut her loose, and wish her well in her future endeavors. Simple as that. |
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If you met a person in the neighbourhood where you live ( or somewhere else ) , both of you are into each other but one of the two is attached to someone else, would it be right to proceed or should you hold the boat off?
I would hold the boat off. Nothing positive would come of escalating interaction motivated by being "into each other." Especially if we lived in the same neighborhood. I might have to "proceed" with some kind of relationship simply due to us being neighbors or something, for the sake of "community" and then try to control the interaction and deal with any problems. I really can't see happening the conversation of "hi, I live just over there. Just wanted to let you know not to ask to borrow the lawn mower or sugar or water your plants or check your mail when you're out of town or call the fire department and check on you when your house is on fire because your spouse and I are kinda into each other and I'm holding the boat off. I want to avoid any drama between all of us so will just be avoiding you absolutely...m'kay? Just a heads up. I'm not an a-hole grumpy neighbor, it's the whole will they won't they and who will it hurt crap I don't want to deal with. Have a great day neighbor!" |
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Thanks for your input, everyone who has commented.
Him and I are still seeing each other and I don’t see a reason why not. He doesn’t love her anymore. He owns half of their house. For now he is staying with her but when it escalates, he will go for me. His words. We don’t feel guilty for seeing each other behind her back. She brought this over herself by not putting enough time into her relationship. He is thinking of leaving her. He wants to be able to be with me all the time. For now we have kind of an open relationship behind her back. |
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If he'll cheat on her,
he'll cheat on you. |
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