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Topic: Would you start a distant (e.g. 3 h flight) relationship?
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Mon 07/30/18 09:26 PM

How easy or difficult is it?


It's so easy, a caveman can do it (Geico reference).

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Tue 07/31/18 01:57 AM
Long distance relationship is hard to keep on,that is the truth.Long separation makes both sides feel lonely and tired.It takes so many time to meet the other.But if If you are getting in true love, stick to it, you will get true happiness, which is not available to others.

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Tue 07/31/18 04:04 AM
Long distance relationship is hard to keep on,that is a truth.Therefore,many couples complain about long distance relationship and they lose their hope for love.Long separation makes the couple being lonely and tired.It takes so many time to meet the other everytime.When the woman wants to find someone to watch the new romantic movie together, the boyfriend is not around her which will make her feel lost.When the woman feels wronged and needs the boyfriend to comfort, the boyfriend is not around, only a little comfort by having a short talking by the phone.But if you are really getting in the true love,never give up, you will get the true happiness finally, which others will never get.

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Tue 07/31/18 04:05 AM
Yes

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Tue 07/31/18 04:43 AM

With respect to the original post:

Seriously-
0nly if I had my own plane, to get there and back.
Normally getting stuck in only 2 hour gridlock in rush hour traffic is enough to start pulling out your own pubes, one at a time.
Well, I don't haves pubes. I got rid of them ages ago when it was common knowledge that women aren't into beavers on guys.
Coz some guys don't keep their own yards maintained decently.


And did we all have to know about your ball sack maintenance.. really.. did we?

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Tue 07/31/18 05:57 AM
Distance doesn’t matter at all

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Tue 07/31/18 07:51 AM
I had two LDR's from here. One was a nightmare, the other worked out quite well.

As others have mentioned a lot depends on one or both having the resources to travel frequently IF the first meeting goes well.

Risks vs Rewards:

Briefly, the "nightmare" was spending all the money to fly,hotels etc. only to find that although she was a nice person, she had a very bad habit that was not evident in our correspondence.

Learning from that experience, the second one was well worth it!happy


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Sun 11/04/18 07:27 PM
With respect to the original post:

Seriously-
0nly if I had my own plane, to get there and back.
Normally getting stuck in only 2 hour gridlock in rush hour traffic is enough to start pulling out your own pubes, one at a time.
Well, I don't haves pubes. I got rid of them ages ago when it was common knowledge that women aren't into beavers on guys.
Coz some guys don't keep their own yards maintained decently.

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Mon 11/05/18 03:07 AM
Why not?! Am all for that BUT this time i MUST feel the sincere commitment from the other side.And that someone who could offer emotional stability.I wouldn't hesitate to start up all over again.

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Mon 11/05/18 03:20 AM
as long as the distance is no longer than tickling or cuddling distancebigsmile

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Mon 11/05/18 03:51 AM
Yes yes. Personally, I like to have one in Washington State, one in San Diego. and one near Miami. This way, I can cover most of the continental U.S.A. I know some of you might be thinking "what about Alaska?" The thing about Alaska is I'm not about to date someone from an area where a polar bear can invite itself in and share our breakfast.

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Mon 11/05/18 05:09 AM
-drive to the airport, 40 mins
-security chq, boarding, 1h30mins
-3 hr flight
-deplane, and cab ride 1-2hrs


a 3hr flight is a 6-8hr journey, that's not gonna happen noway

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Mon 11/05/18 05:20 AM

-drive to the airport, 40 mins
-security chq, boarding, 1h30mins
-3 hr flight
-deplane, and cab ride 1-2hrs


a 3hr flight is a 6-8hr journey, that's not gonna happen noway



Not even to meet the object of your built up fantasies and unrealistic expectations? WTF, dude?

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Mon 11/05/18 07:54 AM

I wouldn't if I could help it.
First of all, I don't have the money to frequently buy plane tickets so it would come down to him doing that travelling. It would likely also mean hardly ever getting to see each other. You can't do that every weekend, prolly not even once a month.
So how can you build a relationship that way?
Sure if you'd move in together, but to get to that place you first have to get to know one another which is nearly impossible if you have to fly 3 hours to see each other.
Also what about sleeping arrangements? I wouldn't want to feel pressed into sleeping with someone I barely even know in the flesh just cos he's had to fly for 3 hrs and invested money in that.
You may think you know each other from online chats, but you don't. It's not the same.
Definitely not ideal. For me it would be a no.


Definitely a post I have written many times :haircut_tone4:‍♀️🤦:tone5:‍♂️:massage_tone5:‍♂️:thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:

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Tue 11/06/18 03:02 AM
i must say you have said it all.for me long distance relationship depends on both parties. for me jacob I've been trying to proof my love to her far off england but she finally dumped me for another guy in her city .so i still belief i will one day meet the woman that will love,care and trust me even though I'm far off in Cameroon

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