Topic: Would you start a distant (e.g. 3 h flight) relationship?
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Sun 07/08/18 06:02 PM



Yes


fascinating, so what happens if he cant afford to fly over, do you fly to see him?

I ask this because I was on another site which is now defunct and there were two people one lived in Bristol UK and the other I think Ohio, both didn't have a passport and neither was willing to leave their countries to meet but they call each other the loves of their lives

what do you think?



laugh people online oftetimes look at things. Unrealistic.
I older so, I look at life Realistic !

Sounds very judgmental but I guess everyone is entitled to there opinions ...I don’t belittle people’s feelings or think I’m smarter than others though I try to let people live there life and find happiness even if it’s not my idea of happiness.

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Sun 07/08/18 06:11 PM

Sounds very judgmental but I guess everyone is entitled to there opinions ...I don’t belittle people’s feelings or think I’m smarter than others though I try to let people live there life and find happiness even if it’s not my idea of happiness.


I know this wasn't in response to my post, but it did get me thinking...I do respect your point of view on the matter. It is very much in line with the personality you have shown us thus far so I really would expect nothing less. flowerforyou

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Sun 07/08/18 06:12 PM

I think a lot of these posts are a result of watching too many chick flics. Very romanticized but not terribly realistic. spock



:thumbsup: :thumbsup: I agree !

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Sun 07/08/18 06:13 PM


Sounds very judgmental but I guess everyone is entitled to there opinions ...I don’t belittle people’s feelings or think I’m smarter than others though I try to let people live there life and find happiness even if it’s not my idea of happiness.


I know this wasn't in response to my post, but it did get me thinking...I do respect your point of view on the matter. It is very much in line with the personality you have shown us thus far so I really would expect nothing less. flowerforyou

:kissing_heart:I care and respect all my new friends on this site that I’ve met recently ...thank you def diff

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Sun 07/08/18 06:18 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 07/08/18 06:19 PM




Yes


fascinating, so what happens if he cant afford to fly over, do you fly to see him?

I ask this because I was on another site which is now defunct and there were two people one lived in Bristol UK and the other I think Ohio, both didn't have a passport and neither was willing to leave their countries to meet but they call each other the loves of their lives

what do you think?



laugh people online oftetimes look at things. Unrealistic.
I older so, I look at life Realistic !

Sounds very judgmental but I guess everyone is entitled to there opinions ...I don’t belittle people’s feelings or think I’m smarter than others though I try to let people live there life and find happiness even if it’s not my idea of happiness.



People do have a right to their opinions. And most people have one.

That doesn't mean a person is belittling another person.
I'm realistic, so are many others.


Aroundtheworld37's photo
Sun 07/08/18 06:27 PM





Yes


fascinating, so what happens if he cant afford to fly over, do you fly to see him?

I ask this because I was on another site which is now defunct and there were two people one lived in Bristol UK and the other I think Ohio, both didn't have a passport and neither was willing to leave their countries to meet but they call each other the loves of their lives

what do you think?



laugh people online oftetimes look at things. Unrealistic.
I older so, I look at life Realistic !

Sounds very judgmental but I guess everyone is entitled to there opinions ...I don’t belittle people’s feelings or think I’m smarter than others though I try to let people live there life and find happiness even if it’s not my idea of happiness.



People do have a right to their opinions. And most people have one.

That doesn't mean a person is belittling another person.
I'm realistic, so are many others.
I don’t think your hearing how it comes off what your saying..that’s all I was trying to say...to say you are older so you are “realistic” is belittling someone lol wisdom dosent come with age unfortunately and I also think people that always have an opinion on something all the time are usually are using there “opinion”to belittle or devalue someone else which is mean I don’t subscribe to that behavior ...also it is not unrealistic the question that was being posed to me by disereli gears ...if you want something you go get it I think it’s easy to sit around and say that something is unrealistic when in reality those same people are wishing they had the balls to get up and go after what they want but often times are too afraid


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Sun 07/08/18 06:42 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 07/08/18 06:44 PM






Yes


fascinating, so what happens if he cant afford to fly over, do you fly to see him?

I ask this because I was on another site which is now defunct and there were two people one lived in Bristol UK and the other I think Ohio, both didn't have a passport and neither was willing to leave their countries to meet but they call each other the loves of their lives

what do you think?



laugh people online oftetimes look at things. Unrealistic.
I older so, I look at life Realistic !

Sounds very judgmental but I guess everyone is entitled to there opinions ...I don’t belittle people’s feelings or think I’m smarter than others though I try to let people live there life and find happiness even if it’s not my idea of happiness.



People do have a right to their opinions. And most people have one.

That doesn't mean a person is belittling another person.
I'm realistic, so are many others.
I don’t think your hearing how it comes off what your saying..that’s all I was trying to say...to say you are older so you are “realistic” is belittling someone lol wisdom dosent come with age unfortunately and I also think people that always have an opinion on something all the time are usually are using there “opinion”to belittle or devalue someone else which is mean I don’t subscribe to that behavior ...also it is not unrealistic the question that was being posed to me by disereli gears ...if you want something you go get it I think it’s easy to sit around and say that something is unrealistic when in reality those same people are wishing they had the balls to get up and go after what they want but often times are too afraid




I understand what you are saying! My thoughts are that People should be wiser when older, because of life experiencees, if they have had any. However, that is not always the case I Know With all people.

I apologize if this came off as belittling. Wasn't meant to be.

However, we can agree to disagree .

Aroundtheworld37's photo
Sun 07/08/18 06:44 PM







Yes


fascinating, so what happens if he cant afford to fly over, do you fly to see him?

I ask this because I was on another site which is now defunct and there were two people one lived in Bristol UK and the other I think Ohio, both didn't have a passport and neither was willing to leave their countries to meet but they call each other the loves of their lives

what do you think?

:kissing_heart:

laugh people online oftetimes look at things. Unrealistic.
I older so, I look at life Realistic !

Sounds very judgmental but I guess everyone is entitled to there opinions ...I don’t belittle people’s feelings or think I’m smarter than others though I try to let people live there life and find happiness even if it’s not my idea of happiness.



People do have a right to their opinions. And most people have one.

That doesn't mean a person is belittling another person.
I'm realistic, so are many others.
I don’t think your hearing how it comes off what your saying..that’s all I was trying to say...to say you are older so you are “realistic” is belittling someone lol wisdom dosent come with age unfortunately and I also think people that always have an opinion on something all the time are usually are using there “opinion”to belittle or devalue someone else which is mean I don’t subscribe to that behavior ...also it is not unrealistic the question that was being posed to me by disereli gears ...if you want something you go get it I think it’s easy to sit around and say that something is unrealistic when in reality those same people are wishing they had the balls to get up and go after what they want but often times are too afraid




I understand what you are saying! My thoughts are that People should be wiser when older, because of life experiencees, if they have had any. However. That is not always the case I Know With all people.

I apologize if this came off as belittling. Wasn't meant to be.

However, we can agree to disagree .

Aroundtheworld37's photo
Sun 07/08/18 06:45 PM








Yes


fascinating, so what happens if he cant afford to fly over, do you fly to see him?

I ask this because I was on another site which is now defunct and there were two people one lived in Bristol UK and the other I think Ohio, both didn't have a passport and neither was willing to leave their countries to meet but they call each other the loves of their lives

what do you think?

:kissing_heart:

laugh people online oftetimes look at things. Unrealistic.
I older so, I look at life Realistic !

Sounds very judgmental but I guess everyone is entitled to there opinions ...I don’t belittle people’s feelings or think I’m smarter than others though I try to let people live there life and find happiness even if it’s not my idea of happiness.



People do have a right to their opinions. And most people have one.

That doesn't mean a person is belittling another person.
I'm realistic, so are many others.
I don’t think your hearing how it comes off what your saying..that’s all I was trying to say...to say you are older so you are “realistic” is belittling someone lol wisdom dosent come with age unfortunately and I also think people that always have an opinion on something all the time are usually are using there “opinion”to belittle or devalue someone else which is mean I don’t subscribe to that behavior ...also it is not unrealistic the question that was being posed to me by disereli gears ...if you want something you go get it I think it’s easy to sit around and say that something is unrealistic when in reality those same people are wishing they had the balls to get up and go after what they want but often times are too afraid




I understand what you are saying! My thoughts are that People should be wiser when older, because of life experiencees, if they have had any. However. That is not always the case I Know With all people.

I apologize if this came off as belittling. Wasn't meant to be.

However, we can agree to disagree .




:kissing_heart:

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Sun 07/08/18 07:07 PM
True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten

Aroundtheworld37's photo
Sun 07/08/18 07:09 PM

True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten

Kindred spirits you and I :kissing_heart:

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Sun 07/08/18 07:10 PM


True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten

Kindred spirits you and I :kissing_heart:

And i agree flowersflowerforyou

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Sun 07/08/18 07:14 PM

True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten


Me too sis :heart: flowerforyou

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Sun 07/08/18 07:15 PM


True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten


Me too sis :heart: flowerforyou

There’s my other soul sister...we totally need to try to all meet one day..

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Sun 07/08/18 07:19 PM

True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten


Dang hard is so very true SS. God gave us the opportunity to find it so it is up to us to determine how it ends.

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Sun 07/08/18 07:20 PM
That would be so awesome!!! Meeting both of you and see sisters ive never had lovelovelove

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Sun 07/08/18 07:21 PM



True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten


Me too sis :heart: flowerforyou

There’s my other soul sister...we totally need to try to all meet one day..


That would be something if we really could... Maybe Manila would be the ideal spot?

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Sun 07/08/18 07:21 PM


True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten


Dang hard is so very true SS. God gave us the opportunity to find it so it is up to us to determine how it ends.

And a brother here too flowers

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Sun 07/08/18 07:22 PM




True love knows no distance and stands any test of time. Finding it in mingle is not impossible but so dang hard as it is hard enough in real life already. I will travel to the ends of the earth if i know and i am sure that we both feel that we have found ourselves in each other coz the feeling of being lost finally left smitten


Me too sis :heart: flowerforyou

There’s my other soul sister...we totally need to try to all meet one day..


That would be something if we really could... Maybe Manila would be the ideal spot?

Yes! Yes! Yes!!!!!!

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Sun 07/08/18 07:24 PM
Hey guys... how about a mingle meet up in manila ... the mods should seriously consider this. If would be such a good thing for the site