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| Topic: Who else here has never been in a relationship? | |
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Just curious, coz I'm one of them too. I come from India where most men( I reckon) still remain kissless virgins very late into their lives until they are married, so it's not a big issue for me. However, after getting into university I found out that 90% of the people there have had been in a relationship in some form. At least 99% girls there are non-virgins and so are over 65% men.
So, I can now somewhat relate to people from other countries who have never dated anyone or been in a relationship with someone. Are you one of them too? Would like to hear your experience. |
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The marriage I was in, was not a relationship, it was like being in prison. Glad it is all over, and maybe one day, I am ready to start a new life and a new relationship.
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The marriage I was in, was not a relationship, it was like being in prison. Glad it is all over, and maybe one day, I am ready to start a new life and a new relationship. Understandable. Most women nowadays have very different ideology than it used to be until the advent of internet. It's very hard to live with someone who is brainwashed,has no morals and is irresponsible. |
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dont judge girls
how can u say 99% girls not virgin there are many who gives values to relations |
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dont judge girls how can u say 99% girls not virgin there are many who gives values to relations I'm not judging anyone's character. I'm only talking about the girls of my university. Everyone in our university knows that there are hardly 10-20 girls who are virgin which is less than 1% of total female population in our university. I'm not talking anything about virginity though . I understand that females get sexually matured much before men, so their libido is higher than men at younger age. I was simply talking about people who have never been in a relationship of any form, whether a long term relationship or one night stand. |
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Sounds rough bro, relationships are fun and not so fun at times. So you're missing out on some fun and some stress lol. Look at it from the bright side, less stress.
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Sounds rough bro, relationships are fun and not so fun at times. So you're missing out on some fun and some stress lol. Look at it from the bright side, less stress. Why so? If happiness is real then so are the rough times, isn't it? |
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Just curious, coz I'm one of them too. I come from India where most men( I reckon) still remain kissless virgins very late into their lives until they are married, so it's not a big issue for me. However, after getting into university I found out that 90% of the people there have had been in a relationship in some form. At least 99% girls there are non-virgins and so are over 65% men. So, I can now somewhat relate to people from other countries who have never dated anyone or been in a relationship with someone. Are you one of them too? Would like to hear your experience. From what you write I think you are confusing relationship with virginity. You have likely been in a lot of relationships, just not sexual relationships. Uni (called college here) is a place where young adults gain personal freedom and some people use that personal freedom to do things they wouldn't or couldn't do when they were living under the restrictions of family. A person's promiscuity often aligns with their emotional maturity. In the young adult stages of life sex is exploration and experimentation. As we age, sex gains different meanings. You will reach an age where there will be a powerful drive to reproduce. You will want to marry and have children and that drive may manifest continually even past completion of your inner mandate. If you survive to be elderly, sex will be something you just want to do because it is an enjoyable activity. Virginity in youth is not as significant as virginity over a lifetime. Give it time... |
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Edited by
Greencel
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Tue 05/29/18 09:06 AM
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Just curious, coz I'm one of them too. I come from India where most men( I reckon) still remain kissless virgins very late into their lives until they are married, so it's not a big issue for me. However, after getting into university I found out that 90% of the people there have had been in a relationship in some form. At least 99% girls there are non-virgins and so are over 65% men. So, I can now somewhat relate to people from other countries who have never dated anyone or been in a relationship with someone. Are you one of them too? Would like to hear your experience. From what you write I think you are confusing relationship with virginity. You have likely been in a lot of relationships, just not sexual relationships. Uni (called college here) is a place where young adults gain personal freedom and some people use that personal freedom to do things they wouldn't or couldn't do when they were living under the restrictions of family. A person's promiscuity often aligns with their emotional maturity. In the young adult stages of life sex is exploration and experimentation. As we age, sex gains different meanings. You will reach an age where there will be a powerful drive to reproduce. You will want to marry and have children and that drive may manifest continually even past completion of your inner mandate. If you survive to be elderly, sex will be something you just want to do because it is an enjoyable activity. Virginity in youth is not as significant as virginity over a lifetime. Give it time... Actually no. I understand the difference between the two. What you're talking about is a long term relationship which most people in my college don't want to be in. More or less all the relationships that people make here are simply for sexual enjoyment, so that's a way to look at it when one is in college. But I do get your point. No I haven't even be in a platonic relationship or LDR as you'd think because as I said nobody really wants to be committed to someone at this stage. However, that is my experience so far and I understand that different people have different perception of relationships. So, I just wanted to know if there are who haven't been in a romantic relationship of any form, sexual or asexual . It doesn't necessarily mean that one has to be a virgin. |
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Some people are A sexual and don't have a need for a relationship. I don't think they understand why others have a relationship. To me it's sad.
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Some people are A sexual and don't have a need for a relationship. I don't think they understand why others have a relationship. To me it's sad. Aye. But a platonic relationship can be deep as well. It is all about mutual respect, support and understanding. JMO |
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