Topic: What the heck is toxic masculinity, safe places, etc.. ?
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Thu 05/10/18 02:13 PM
^^^^ a very good reason to live in the sticks laugh you can always find a convenient tree

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Thu 05/10/18 02:49 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž on Thu 05/10/18 02:50 PM
Maybe, if you just stop to think about it, it's not all that weird to have a unisex toilet?
I mean, men tend to be so EEEWWWW if you even suggest anything concerning their wiener and another man, yet in the man's room you stand there, publicly whip it out without a problem, even when there's another 4-6 guys there doing the same thing without batting an eyelid?
Apart from that, mostly men leave the door to the loo open, so everyone that walks past either has to feel awkward or look at a number of wieners they really didn't want to see.
I would've thought men to be more to themselves when it came to showing their penises, but thinking of this I wonder if you actually like showing it to the world?

If I think about women doing this -peeing publicly with other women present-, then suddenly it's totally freakin' weird.

Same thing with men peeing outdoors. This happens so often along the motorway, and it isn't allowed to just stop there, not to simply have a leak.
It's considered okayish, yet if a woman would do it everyone would get upset, and the male part of the population excited.

So someone being shocked about seeing a woman waiting as he exits the loo is over the top if you think that you piss outdoors in the open, sometimes with your penis in view for total strangers, and pee in urinals with other strange men present. That doesn't bother you, yet a woman standing there when you've zipped up does? noway

Also, we have 'unisex' toilets in our own homes. So what's the big deal I wonder?

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Thu 05/10/18 03:14 PM

Maybe, if you just stop to think about it, it's not all that weird to have a unisex toilet?
I mean, men tend to be so EEEWWWW if you even suggest anything concerning their wiener and another man, yet in the man's room you stand there, publicly whip it out without a problem, even when there's another 4-6 guys there doing the same thing without batting an eyelid?
Apart from that, mostly men leave the door to the loo open, so everyone that walks past either has to feel awkward or look at a number of wieners they really didn't want to see.
I would've thought men to be more to themselves when it came to showing their penises, but thinking of this I wonder if you actually like showing it to the world?

If I think about women doing this -peeing publicly with other women present-, then suddenly it's totally freakin' weird.

Same thing with men peeing outdoors. This happens so often along the motorway, and it isn't allowed to just stop there, not to simply have a leak.
It's considered okayish, yet if a woman would do it everyone would get upset, and the male part of the population excited.

So someone being shocked about seeing a woman waiting as he exits the loo is over the top if you think that you piss outdoors in the open, sometimes with your penis in view for total strangers, and pee in urinals with other strange men present. That doesn't bother you, yet a woman standing there when you've zipped up does? noway

Also, we have 'unisex' toilets in our own homes. So what's the big deal I wonder?

Stage fright?

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Thu 05/10/18 03:23 PM

Maybe, if you just stop to think about it, it's not all that weird to have a unisex toilet?
I mean, men tend to be so EEEWWWW if you even suggest anything concerning their wiener and another man, yet in the man's room you stand there, publicly whip it out without a problem, even when there's another 4-6 guys there doing the same thing without batting an eyelid?
Apart from that, mostly men leave the door to the loo open, so everyone that walks past either has to feel awkward or look at a number of wieners they really didn't want to see.
I would've thought men to be more to themselves when it came to showing their penises, but thinking of this I wonder if you actually like showing it to the world?

If I think about women doing this -peeing publicly with other women present-, then suddenly it's totally freakin' weird.

Same thing with men peeing outdoors. This happens so often along the motorway, and it isn't allowed to just stop there, not to simply have a leak.
It's considered okayish, yet if a woman would do it everyone would get upset, and the male part of the population excited.

So someone being shocked about seeing a woman waiting as he exits the loo is over the top if you think that you piss outdoors in the open, sometimes with your penis in view for total strangers, and pee in urinals with other strange men present. That doesn't bother you, yet a woman standing there when you've zipped up does? noway

Also, we have 'unisex' toilets in our own homes. So what's the big deal I wonder?


I see you havent been around too many men, ummm men dont go to the bathroom together like most women, and if two buddies go they dont look at each other johnson, its an unwritten rule.

As a man If you're on the toilet and there is no toilet paper asking the next stall is taboo and is frowned upon, where women talk, exchange recipes, phone numbers etc, if one stall runs out of toilet paper and she asks the next stall the woman will pass her some toilet paper without hesitation.

most men wont pee in public for fear of being charged with disorderly conduct and in certain states like arizona if someone under 15 years old witnessed it you would be charge with a felony.

and we do have unisex toilets in our home because its our home and that is the way its made, and the public doesn't use our bathrooms



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Thu 05/10/18 03:36 PM
so what do you did if there is no tp in a stall ? lol

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Thu 05/10/18 03:43 PM

so what do you did if there is no tp in a stall ? lol
smart guys will make sure .

only the dumb ones dont and they are S.O.L. or they have to wait I guess until the stall next to them is empty.

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Thu 05/10/18 04:06 PM



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Thu 05/10/18 04:09 PM
For those asking whatโ€™s the problem with unisex toilets, Iโ€™d like to ask whatโ€™s the problem with separate toilets.

Are we saying itโ€™s ok for say a 10 year old girl to use a toilet when there 4 or 5 guys in there?

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Thu 05/10/18 06:27 PM

For those asking whatโ€™s the problem with unisex toilets, Iโ€™d like to ask whatโ€™s the problem with separate toilets.

Are we saying itโ€™s ok for say a 10 year old girl to use a toilet when there 4 or 5 guys in there?


exactly .

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Thu 05/10/18 06:36 PM
Edited by GalaxyStarz on Thu 05/10/18 06:36 PM
public restrooms are bad enough without sharing with men who can't shoot straight, and don't care.

mightymoe's photo
Fri 05/11/18 03:01 PM

For those asking whatโ€™s the problem with unisex toilets, Iโ€™d like to ask whatโ€™s the problem with separate toilets.

Are we saying itโ€™s ok for say a 10 year old girl to use a toilet when there 4 or 5 guys in there?
I can answer that with a question... How much money does Starbucks save by only one bathroom? They don't give a crap about trannys or gays, they care about the dollar amount...

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Fri 05/11/18 03:03 PM

public restrooms are bad enough without sharing with men who can't shoot straight, and don't care.

what would we care about shooting straight in a public unisex bathroom?

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Fri 05/11/18 03:32 PM


Maybe, if you just stop to think about it, it's not all that weird to have a unisex toilet?
I mean, men tend to be so EEEWWWW if you even suggest anything concerning their wiener and another man, yet in the man's room you stand there, publicly whip it out without a problem, even when there's another 4-6 guys there doing the same thing without batting an eyelid?
Apart from that, mostly men leave the door to the loo open, so everyone that walks past either has to feel awkward or look at a number of wieners they really didn't want to see.
I would've thought men to be more to themselves when it came to showing their penises, but thinking of this I wonder if you actually like showing it to the world?

If I think about women doing this -peeing publicly with other women present-, then suddenly it's totally freakin' weird.

Same thing with men peeing outdoors. This happens so often along the motorway, and it isn't allowed to just stop there, not to simply have a leak.
It's considered okayish, yet if a woman would do it everyone would get upset, and the male part of the population excited.

So someone being shocked about seeing a woman waiting as he exits the loo is over the top if you think that you piss outdoors in the open, sometimes with your penis in view for total strangers, and pee in urinals with other strange men present. That doesn't bother you, yet a woman standing there when you've zipped up does? noway

Also, we have 'unisex' toilets in our own homes. So what's the big deal I wonder?


I see you havent been around too many men, ummm men dont go to the bathroom together like most women, and if two buddies go they dont look at each other johnson, its an unwritten rule.

As a man If you're on the toilet and there is no toilet paper asking the next stall is taboo and is frowned upon, where women talk, exchange recipes, phone numbers etc, if one stall runs out of toilet paper and she asks the next stall the woman will pass her some toilet paper without hesitation.

most men wont pee in public for fear of being charged with disorderly conduct and in certain states like arizona if someone under 15 years old witnessed it you would be charge with a felony.

and we do have unisex toilets in our home because its our home and that is the way its made, and the public doesn't use our bathrooms




Haha, ever been to a pub? There's usually some 4-6 urinals and often an equal amount of men who are using them. So yes, men do go to toilets together. Not together together, but they're in there together. Typically there's only one closed off space, what you call a stall for 'the other' business.

I think we have a law over here now too about peeing in the outdoors, it's called 'wild plassen' (wild peeing), but doubt it would be considered a felony.
I do remember years ago they had to place fencing around (old) buildings, like churches etc., to keep men from peeing against them as it began to seriously damage the buildings. And then we're also talking about whipping it out in public.
So in that sense men are weird creatures. I mean, why do they feel it's okay to piss against trees, and buildings or in the open when neither are available? When a dog pees on a man's car's wheels they get upset, yet they don't have a problem peeing against buildings?

As for at home... not everyone who visits and uses your loo is direct family and it's still both genders using it. Even if it's a friend or sibling or family member, you don't know how they take care of their nether regions.

And don't take it so personally. It's just that thinking about this you come to realize how odd it is.

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Fri 05/11/18 03:34 PM





rofl rofl rofl
That last one made me laugh laugh

I read the other day on a fact-Pinterest site that having flies in the ceramic of the pot has decreased 'spillage' by 80%-88%.

Oh, what do you do when the only urinal available is next to another guy? You wait?

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Fri 05/11/18 03:38 PM

For those asking whatโ€™s the problem with unisex toilets, Iโ€™d like to ask whatโ€™s the problem with separate toilets.

Are we saying itโ€™s ok for say a 10 year old girl to use a toilet when there 4 or 5 guys in there?

Good point. Didn't all this BS begin with the transgender to-do about wanting to access the loos that aren't of their biological gender?
Maybe it should be made easy by making the disabled toilet for them as well so the rest of the world can enjoy their normal bathrooms without any hassle.
(I often use the disable toilet too, lol, more space, haha)
Indeed isn't the well-being of our kids more important than the problems of adult transgenders? No disrespect, but little girls are a bloody good point indeed.

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Fri 05/11/18 03:40 PM



Maybe, if you just stop to think about it, it's not all that weird to have a unisex toilet?
I mean, men tend to be so EEEWWWW if you even suggest anything concerning their wiener and another man, yet in the man's room you stand there, publicly whip it out without a problem, even when there's another 4-6 guys there doing the same thing without batting an eyelid?
Apart from that, mostly men leave the door to the loo open, so everyone that walks past either has to feel awkward or look at a number of wieners they really didn't want to see.
I would've thought men to be more to themselves when it came to showing their penises, but thinking of this I wonder if you actually like showing it to the world?

If I think about women doing this -peeing publicly with other women present-, then suddenly it's totally freakin' weird.

Same thing with men peeing outdoors. This happens so often along the motorway, and it isn't allowed to just stop there, not to simply have a leak.
It's considered okayish, yet if a woman would do it everyone would get upset, and the male part of the population excited.

So someone being shocked about seeing a woman waiting as he exits the loo is over the top if you think that you piss outdoors in the open, sometimes with your penis in view for total strangers, and pee in urinals with other strange men present. That doesn't bother you, yet a woman standing there when you've zipped up does? noway

Also, we have 'unisex' toilets in our own homes. So what's the big deal I wonder?


I see you havent been around too many men, ummm men dont go to the bathroom together like most women, and if two buddies go they dont look at each other johnson, its an unwritten rule.

As a man If you're on the toilet and there is no toilet paper asking the next stall is taboo and is frowned upon, where women talk, exchange recipes, phone numbers etc, if one stall runs out of toilet paper and she asks the next stall the woman will pass her some toilet paper without hesitation.

most men wont pee in public for fear of being charged with disorderly conduct and in certain states like arizona if someone under 15 years old witnessed it you would be charge with a felony.

and we do have unisex toilets in our home because its our home and that is the way its made, and the public doesn't use our bathrooms




Haha, ever been to a pub? There's usually some 4-6 urinals and often an equal amount of men who are using them. So yes, men do go to toilets together. Not together together, but they're in there together. Typically there's only one closed off space, what you call a stall for 'the other' business.

I think we have a law over here now too about peeing in the outdoors, it's called 'wild plassen' (wild peeing), but doubt it would be considered a felony.
I do remember years ago they had to place fencing around (old) buildings, like churches etc., to keep men from peeing against them as it began to seriously damage the buildings. And then we're also talking about whipping it out in public.
So in that sense men are weird creatures. I mean, why do they feel it's okay to piss against trees, and buildings or in the open when neither are available? When a dog pees on a man's car's wheels they get upset, yet they don't have a problem peeing against buildings?

As for at home... not everyone who visits and uses your loo is direct family and it's still both genders using it. Even if it's a friend or sibling or family member, you don't know how they take care of their nether regions.

And don't take it so personally. It's just that thinking about this you come to realize how odd it is.



I dont take things personally.

and men going to the bathroom or loo as you call them rarely look at another guy when he taking a leak, and Ive seen men come in when am I at the urinal and one is next time is open and the stall is open, they will use the stall to pee.

as in for people using my bathroom , yeah they are called family or friends, I dont have strangers stopping by to use the bathroom.

My home is not a truck stop and I guess I hang around a different set of people because if they use my bathroom they are pretty clean people.

As for men pissing on trees, I dont know many men that do that in the city, unless they do that in the country or rural area.



Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 05/12/18 03:05 PM
Should be male and female restrooms. Some things do not need change.

GearGrinder83's photo
Sun 05/13/18 01:47 AM
Bathrooms are a luxury. I use piss jugs normally.

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Sun 05/13/18 07:39 AM

Should be male and female restrooms. Some things do not need change.
amen.

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Mon 05/14/18 12:18 PM
Edited by GearGrinder83 on Mon 05/14/18 12:21 PM



Maybe, if you just stop to think about it, it's not all that weird to have a unisex toilet?
I mean, men tend to be so EEEWWWW if you even suggest anything concerning their wiener and another man, yet in the man's room you stand there, publicly whip it out without a problem, even when there's another 4-6 guys there doing the same thing without batting an eyelid?
Apart from that, mostly men leave the door to the loo open, so everyone that walks past either has to feel awkward or look at a number of wieners they really didn't want to see.
I would've thought men to be more to themselves when it came to showing their penises, but thinking of this I wonder if you actually like showing it to the world?

If I think about women doing this -peeing publicly with other women present-, then suddenly it's totally freakin' weird.

Same thing with men peeing outdoors. This happens so often along the motorway, and it isn't allowed to just stop there, not to simply have a leak.
It's considered okayish, yet if a woman would do it everyone would get upset, and the male part of the population excited.

So someone being shocked about seeing a woman waiting as he exits the loo is over the top if you think that you piss outdoors in the open, sometimes with your penis in view for total strangers, and pee in urinals with other strange men present. That doesn't bother you, yet a woman standing there when you've zipped up does? noway

Also, we have 'unisex' toilets in our own homes. So what's the big deal I wonder?


I see you havent been around too many men, ummm men dont go to the bathroom together like most women, and if two buddies go they dont look at each other johnson, its an unwritten rule.

As a man If you're on the toilet and there is no toilet paper asking the next stall is taboo and is frowned upon, where women talk, exchange recipes, phone numbers etc, if one stall runs out of toilet paper and she asks the next stall the woman will pass her some toilet paper without hesitation.

most men wont pee in public for fear of being charged with disorderly conduct and in certain states like arizona if someone under 15 years old witnessed it you would be charge with a felony.

and we do have unisex toilets in our home because its our home and that is the way its made, and the public doesn't use our bathrooms




Haha, ever been to a pub? There's usually some 4-6 urinals and often an equal amount of men who are using them. So yes, men do go to toilets together. Not together together, but they're in there together. Typically there's only one closed off space, what you call a stall for 'the other' business.

I think we have a law over here now too about peeing in the outdoors, it's called 'wild plassen' (wild peeing), but doubt it would be considered a felony.
I do remember years ago they had to place fencing around (old) buildings, like churches etc., to keep men from peeing against them as it began to seriously damage the buildings. And then we're also talking about whipping it out in public.
So in that sense men are weird creatures. I mean, why do they feel it's okay to piss against trees, and buildings or in the open when neither are available? When a dog pees on a man's car's wheels they get upset, yet they don't have a problem peeing against buildings?

As for at home... not everyone who visits and uses your loo is direct family and it's still both genders using it. Even if it's a friend or sibling or family member, you don't know how they take care of their nether regions.

And don't take it so personally. It's just that thinking about this you come to realize how odd it is.



In my profession you kinda just have to go where ever you are at. Into an empty bottle, on the side of the road, behind a dumpster, etc. You try to hold it at first and use the bathroom properly but eventually you just give up. You get tired of feeling that pressure and the thought you might be damaging your bladder holding it all the time.

I don't personally get made about urinating on tires. I pee right on my own drive tires when pulled over. No discriminating going on here.

Its not just a guy thing, either. Female truck drivers do the same stuff. Only difference is instead of an empty water bottle, it's a bucket.